How to build your sex appeal
16 September 2014, 18:55
Nairobi - Inside beauty is all
good and great for promoting self-confidence, but the person you date or want to date
is not going to ask for your X-Ray, and before someone talks to you, how you
look on the outside will go a long way in either encouraging or discourage them
from talking to you.
There’s a difference
between sex appeal and being trashy, so how do you build on yours?
Have an awesome body
I am not talking about societal standards of being a certain
dress size, but just being fit enough to climb the stairs and not break a sweat when not taking the elevator. This boosts your self-confidence by a long shot.
Do not look unhealthy.
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Talking of Sweat…Body Odour
Avoid having body odour, especially you ladies, invest in
good fragrance but also take a shower. Do not bathe in perfume yet you have not
properly showered. You can pick a signature fragrance that works for you.
Something light, intense and sexy. Do not pick something that is heavy and
chokes people as you walk past.
accompanied by your fragrance can have a positive intense effect on people of
the opposite sex as long as it is properly used. General Hygiene is a must.
Dress well and appropriately
This is where trashy
comes in. Too tight, revealing clothing. Dress in clothes that fit and complement
your body. The right make-up and hair
goes along way too.
How you carry
yourself around people goes a long way in making them want to approach you. I
will avoid that woman who is busy spitting on the side of the road, the one
picking her nose with a finger in public, the one sitting with her legs spread
in a skirt and the one chewing and talking at the same time.
Learn how to handle yourself like a lady and not like a sack
of potatoes. Read a book on it if it helps. Be graceful in the way you
walk and talk.
After you package the outside, a couple of things to move
things a long;
Learn to look at people when talking to them and maintaining
it, do not avoid. Do not over-flatter your eyelashes or do deep stares that end
up being queer. If it is someone you like, stare deeply as well as intensely
into their eyes and be relaxed as well as confident as you do it. Do not overdo
it though, you do not want them to feel uncomfortable.
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Having a positive
attitude about yourself and what you do, boosts your self-esteem. If you walk
around feeling like a lost cause on mankind, you end up looking like one too.
People connect better with someone who is comfortable in
their surroundings as well as what they are doing. It also makes them
comfortable enough to interact with you. It may be your first time meeting some
CEO, but deal with the skittishness and keep it out of sight. Look like it is
your daily business.Otherwise you will look out of your league and you cannot
afford that if you want to have unbeatable sex appeal.
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