Five relationships to avoid like the plague
15 September 2014, 13:47
Nairobi - Women are creatures that like having connection to other
beings. These may lead them to very damaging relationships. Others are just
draining, not just with men but with women too.Here are some to avoid.
The boyfriend who is not a boyfriend.
You know he is using you yet you just hold onto him with
your dear life. He only calls when either 1. He wants money usually calls it a
loan 2. He wants you to come over 3. He wants to borrow your car to go
somewhere, most probably driving another woman to Maasai Mara
This one is just the worst because for most it is hard to
break from it. You go into it with expectations even though he never even told
you or showed you that he is interested. You waste your time, finances and your
energy instead of putting it where it will be more appreciated.
The Girlfriend who likes your shoulder
She is only there when she is in trouble but you never see
her when you are in need. This one just likes exploiting your emotions. Likes
putting you on an emotional roller-coaster and dumps you when you are at a high
as soon as she gets a fix. She gets off on the pity parties you throw her.
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The workmate who is always in need
You are basically doing his/ her workload, and giving
him/her ideas which they use to get much better projects and accounts as well
as better remuneration evaluation. You get nothing because she or he never
admits that they had a little or the much help from you. You are the behind the
scenes creative editor.
The bank that is
essentially a walking human being
You know the one, they always want a little help with
everything. The loan never gets back. I am sure you have even lost count, and
if you sat down, you would be surprised or you already know the much they owe
would have been down payment for even a car. Even now, you have just M-Pesad
them the rent money that they are short on.
They want everything. They want to come over for a month.
They want to buy land somewhere. They are about to bury someone. Someone needs
a job and they heard, ‘…unafanya kwa kampuni kubwa na watu wakubwa…’ rarely do
I blame people for this one because it is just ignorant. They think everyone is
running the human resource.
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Our hormones failed
us in this department, in terms of emotions I would have like a lot of
testosterone. Rather act an idiot when it comes to some things rather than be
in touch with it.
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