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Can you tame a man?

30 October 2015, 16:05 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Recently, I watched something. The lady was having an argument with her man and he walks away. In my way of thinking, that is good. Walk away rather than get violent. Anyway, so she follows him outside and stands in front of the car so that he doesn’t drive away. The man pulled off the curb and she stands in the middle of the street I am sure in her mind she was thinking lets us see if you are going to hit me! Surprise was on her though he drove in reverse! I have never seen something more hilarious in my life. Maybe I have but for that day he won the prize.

I bet she thought she had won but he showed her!

Which leads us to the question can you tame someone, a man into being what you want and doing what you want? Depends, because the only thing that can tame a man is if he wants to be kept by you; otherwise you are running circles around yourself like her.

How do you know if you have or haven’t tamed yours?

If he does not want to entertain you, he won’t

What do I mean by entertaining? Putting up with your nonsense; your petty arguments, drama and nagging. A man only entertains such at the end of the day if he knows that that woman is for him, otherwise there is no sex, and no cajoling and no fooling around that will ensure he sticks around. He sticks around and puts up with it because he likes you. You have not tamed him; he just chooses to act like a fool for you.

On the other side of the hemisphere, this is the one that does not care at all. He will drive in reverse even if he is calling his own death. It does not matter because his goal is to get away from you. When a man gets fed up you will know. It does not mean your sorcery has stopped working on taming him; just that he is no longer interested in keeping you entertained.

It is that simple really. Taming a man is not about you, what you want or your expectations. It is all about him and if he thinks you are worth it for him to put up with you and your nonsense.

If you have one now that you are struggling to chase, then leave him alone he will never be yours. It will work for a minute but when he is out there, know he is everyone’s.  If you have one and he behaves like a cat around you even though you know he is a dog; then you are lucky because you have a keeper. Just ease up on the stress; it helps him like you more.

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