Are men afraid to approach beautiful women?
02 September 2015, 19:03
Nairobi - As a woman I will be the first to tell you that we do not
know how to distinguish between the two.
On the other hand, in some cases our theory is actually the truth.
When she is good looking so you do not approach her because
of some assumptions you make up in your head.
I wanted to go for pretty or the word beautiful but then I
realized that one horse might not seat other riders very well. I was talking to
my girlfriend last night and we are both in the same state: single. So I asked
her what her problem is and she was blunt enough to tell me that most guys do
not just approach her. This is the truth! Most of the time, if a beautiful
women does not approach her prey, nothing would ever happen. Guys see her and
what it immediately communicates is she cannot be single, or she might be mean
or she is too high maintenance. Why don’t you just come and ask me? Why don’t
you ask me for a date and see how exactly I actually pay for my bills instead
of making your own conclusions? That is how you miss out on the good things in
life; by not taking any action at all.
Not all women have the guts to get up and approach you. So
there you are ogling her, thinking maybe she is waiting for her husband, maybe
she is waiting for her boyfriend or maybe she is too stuck up. What? I did not
realize we all walk around with imaginary labels men can read that we do not
know about. You get positive results when you make positive moves. Go to her
table and ask. Because believe it or not, the chances of her getting up and ask
you decline as she starts going through her phone and spending more time there.
If you catch them looking at you, that is good enough for me. At times I do not
even need you to look at me. Since you are leaving all the work to us, I will
get up and ask. If it is a no, then that was clearly disinterest. Getting
rejected once in a while is good for your health. If I leave with your number
then I know that you were just being intimidated.
I also did not realize that for a woman to be classified as
single she has to look like she was run through by a track. Terrible to no
make-up, bad weave and very unkempt. If she looks neat and well made up it
automatically means that someone else is paying for it. So women these days cannot
If you are being intimidated by her because of her looks,
her education, she has her life together and you do not. Then it is just as
well because we do not need people pulling us back and coming to bring
On the other hand, if you are interested, then go ahead and
make a move. Stop being lame. Get what you think you deserve because at the
end, your woman is a reflection of you. If you keep picking rags, then it is
just as well because I also do not need a man bringing down my worth.
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