8 valid reasons why you should dump him
29 April 2016, 12:56
Relationships are serious business that should be taken cautiously; it's your life don't joke with it.
You deserve the best boyfriend so here are the reasons why you should break up with him;
1. He lives in the past
When he is holding too tightly to the past and he talks often about his ex and the good times they shared together, you need to be worried. Thriving relationships forget the past and plan for the future.
Dealing with an infidel is difficult and it indicates heartbreaks that will soon follow. HIV/AIDs is real if he cheats on you once, he will cheat again so just let go of him.
3. Different relationship values and interest
If you have conflicts it means you don't compliment each other in that. Perhaps you want kids but he doesn't, or you want to get married and he doesn’t. You shouldn’t waste each other's time, just let go because you will never agree.
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4. Financial strain
Money will feed the family and pay bills. Without it, a relationship cannot thrive. Remember you can not eat love. See his capabilities and read the future well and if he just sits there waiting for manna from heaven, it's time to find your way out.
5. Battering, physical abuse
Someone who hurts you by beating you up will one day kill you so run for your life. Emotional torture is even worse; you will get ulcers! Just break up when the clock is still ticking.
6. Absence of happiness
If you’re not happy three months down the line, you will never find happiness. Sometimes we start a relationship for the wrong reasons and so when we are unsatisfied, we become unhappy. If this is the case with you, it's time to go out there and get your right match.
7. The relationship has faded
When you have been together long enough, you feel bored with him and your love for him is long gone, don't pretend. Just move out and start again; it's never too late to start a new relationship.
Sex is important in a relationship. Don't buy time for bad or poor sex; you will easily get bored so the earlier you break up the better.
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