7 things you should never do to him
03 June 2015, 16:30
Nairobi - There are several things you should never do to a man unless you are keen on ringing alarm bells.
Calling his mother
This is a classic one. First of all you are yet to meet her
personally. He is yet to introduce you meaning he is discriminating on the
company he presents to his mother.
I do not know how you got her number but chances are he is
not the one who gave it to you meaning that you have been snooping in someone’s
phone. Why are you calling the mother to tell her about an argument that you
have heard yet she does not know you? Or forcing an invitation to her house.
Unless you met her, and he is the one that introduced you.
She calls you and you have an open relationship with her. Calling a guy’s
mother and you are still one of his randoms
makes you look crazy to him.
No matter how many times this advice is given, it is never
heeded by the women folk. Even women who
are just a friend think that you will not mind if they dropped in unannounced.
Maybe you had a one night stand and now you know where the
guy lives and since he is ignoring your calls you want to make sure he is not
Or maybe you want to ‘help’ with his chores and he should
give you a standing ovation instead of staring at you as if you are crazy.
One thing I like about living in Kajiado is that I will
never have unannounced visitors. My friends just get tired from thinking of the
trip. You need to call me even the women, call me because at times I just do
not want to have a conversation with anyone. You coming unannounced forces me
to be creative.
It does not look good and in your opinion it should be
somewhere else. Trust me, a man does not survive his 20-30 something odd years
without knowing where his toothbrush should be.
Unless you are 1.) his interior decorator or 2.) he has
asked, do not rearrange someone’s house. Same applies to the girlfriend that
will have you kicked out or disinvited.
The only person allowed to rearrange a man’s house is his
Planning the future
You are only allowed to do this if it’s a year or two and
you have to know if you are wasting your time.
But date number two and you already have the babies’ names
set out; that is psychotic. You can have them but just for insurance, keep it
to yourself otherwise the guy will flee.
Having a one month
anniversary over the first day you met
Why? That is all I am thinking, what he was thinking before
he ran away and what you should have been thinking at that time.
It may seem like a good idea when you are planning it; the
dinner, the presents or the weekend trip. Point is, unless you are married, you
do not have anniversaries. You are ruining the moment.
Buying him clothes
A friend of mine once narrated to me how some woman who
liked him, they had not even started dating officially, started buying him
clothes.Yes, she liked him, had made her intentions clear. He had said no but
she decided to sweeten the plea by buying him clothes. If she was out or window
shopping she would buy him clothes.You only buy your husband and your
legitimate boyfriend of more than a year clothes. The rest are persona non
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