7 reasons women fight for a man
04 August 2015, 18:25
Women actually don't fancy fighting for a man but circumstances can force them to.
Competition for men
How do I put this one without sounding dumb? By the way, not
all good men are taken, if you are patient, and look for the one that is right
for you, there are men out here in Kenya by the way. Does not matter if he is
your tribe, from Kenya, or a different race. Men are there if you are just
patient enough to wait. Problem comes in when women do not want to get out of
there comfort zone, and fight for the one man they all see in the office every
day of the week. Instead of him taking you out, you are the ones taking turns
to take him out even though he is not the next best thing. Take the competition
out of the equation by getting out of your comfort zone. Do the same things and
you will continue getting the same results. Think of it like chemistry,
different chemicals mixed in different situations, give different results. You
might win a competition, but look at the people you were competing with, that tells
you if you compromised by the way.
Everybody else around you is growing with their partner but
you are still stuck
Nothing worse than to see everybody around you being taken
down by a fever but you are the only one left standing. It makes you anxious
and worried especially when it repeatedly does not want you. Especially when it
comes in the form of relationships and marriage. You start going back to the
reject list and think that maybe you could make it work if you just did not pay
attention to his womanizing, condescending, hypocritical and egocentric ways.
Maybe you can just make it work! That is how no-doers get the good women.
There is nothing such as 100%
Which is true; no one is perfect. Everyone has a flaw. The
problem lies in settling for something that is not so much of a flaw that can
be overlooked but a habit that is formed when a man sees he can get away with
anything. It is not compromising when something hurts you, makes you
uncomfortable and makes you miserable. Healthy compromise is when both parties
do it for the one they are with and it leads to something healthy and
Every female’s enemy; age!
This one is self-explanatory. Whereas with men, the older
they get and the more stable as well as mature they become; they are more in
demand. For the women it is the opposite. The less most of the good men will
pay attention to you especially if they have the option of a younger model that
has all those qualities you have spent your prime years in perfecting.
Not comfortable with being alone
For every woman that is comfortable in being by herself
there are ten more that are trying to fake it. I will not be as harsh as to say
that maybe no man wants you but that idea alone is enough to make a woman go
back on what she could have never stood for in the beginning.
It always gives the wrong signals and it is because women
take it too emotionally and personally. He is nil on everything else on the
list but at least he is good in bed. Deny it all you want but there is a larger
percentage of women who settle in a relationship because at least the man is
good enough for her in that area.
Being in a rush
Self-explanatory and has been covered under the second
subtopic. But when you are in a rush to accomplish some goal you had set long
ago, a woman compromises. She set it while she was comfortable, in no hurry and
sure that she could do better. It is here, now and the better never came. ‘Let
me call that Jack* dude that I met at the bar the other day. I was never going
to marry a bar tender last year but I will open one for him, at least now he
owns a business. ‘Those are the kinds of conversations women have with
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