7 male behaviours women hate
03 September 2015, 12:57
There are behaviours women would rather not see from a man. Here are some.
Talking about having sex all the time
It is good to establish chemistry and show your interest in
those areas towards her but keep it under wraps. Talk about it once, let it go.
Do not get into what you like to do, what you like your women to do and make
the whole conversation about you taking her home tonight. You are not going to
take her anywhere after that.
Being too pushy
This woman clicks with you. The way she talks is not like
any other women you have met. She is very beautiful and beyond your
expectations. She is kind-hearted, courteous, a lady has a brain and even
works- basically everything you would like in your woman. Then do not rush her.
This is not the time to call her every other minute and berate her for not
picking some of your calls and not answering some texts. Not all women play
games, some of us are actually busy. If not, we just at times do not have
anything to say. If you go on a date and you feel it went really well, you can
call her to say goodnight but wait until a late date to make further
arrangements. She might even be the one to call you. Just don’t be persistent
and pushy because you seem needy.
Telling her how you think she should have dressed
It does not matter if you think you have better style and
taste. It does not matter if she came dressed inappropriately. It does not
matter if she came dressed in ill-fitting clothes. It is none of your business.
The only men allowed to tell women how to dress are their husbands and
boyfriends. They can get a vote because at times they paid for it. But not a
date, you have not reached that league yet.
Making the conversation on how much money you make and what
you do. Just you
Insecurity is a bad thing because it makes you jump in all
kinds of hoops. Yes, the conversation might lead up to the work you do but
dates are about getting to know the actual person. Their interests, hobbies, do
they actually enjoy what they do. Money only comes in when you are trying to be
my husband or when you are my boyfriend and I am checking to make sure you are
Checking how the bill is going to be sorted out
It is really bad when you know you only have a certain
amount to spend on a date and you go to a place that is really pricey. You hope
that she will order for the least pricey or she will not order for some things.
It does not work. Do not assume she will be able to cater for her own bill
either. Going Dutch is a new term for a lot of women especially on a first date
that you invited her to. The best thing you can ever do for first dates is go
somewhere that is not expensive. A casual place because you are still getting
to know this person. Expensive dates are for when you have gotten to know them
and think they are worth it. If she gets angry, then maybe she was not worth it
at all. Expensive to impress does not ensure anything other than her calling
you for meals or getting her the material stuff.
Asking what happened to the last guy
You are allowed to ask but it is usually in bad form because
I am here with you and not with them. You have to wait until I bring it up. If
not, you bring it up when you want to actually commit and it is going to help
you make the decision. Did she cheat? Does she still talk to the ex? Did she
steal from him and he caught her? Does she still have feelings for the guy?
Chances are the above questions usually get answers that are lies.
Talking about your ex
Just like you don’t want to listen about what our ex did and
how he was this and that we also do not care to talk about your exes either. We
do not want to know if she was the cause of why you are here right now or if
you were the cause and trying to change. Leave all that for me to bring it up
and that is if I am actually thinking of being committed to you. Otherwise, I
do not need to know.
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