6 ways to give your man pleasure with your hands
12 January 2015, 13:30
Nairobi - In a world where women are thought to be the most
complicated people, the men’s anatomy takes the cake and it hardly has as many
functions as the women’s does. Handbooks, manuals, journals are written on how
to just pleasure the man, and it all falls on us women to keep up to date with
the latest findings. The hand job comes secondary or even third or not at all
when it comes to foreplay yet not many people embrace it, even the men
themselves. So as the woman, here are some of the basic rules that you can
stick to if you choose to brave those waters.
No one can give him a hand job better than when he does it
The point here is, if you do not want to do it then do not
do it because he has perfected the art. It is sort of like, applying your own
make up, you would not want someone to come and do it worse than you- you would
rather they did it better or like you. If not, then they do not do it at all
because you can do it yourself. If you
are not enthusiastic about it, do not do it. If you do not know what you are
doing, ask or do not do it.
Keep it short....
Unless you are a
Geisha who has time travelled from ancient Japan and knows how to use her
hands, hand jobs can get quite boring if you just keep to the same monotonous
movements. After your first few attempts of manhandling, pulling and tagging;
in his head, he is just thinking NEXT but he will be afraid to tell you because
he knows you were trying to give him foreplay. That is what it is, FOREPLAY,
you should move on to the next course.
If you are a newbie,
just ask, there is nothing wrong with asking your partner and either way every
man is different; what works for Tom might not work for Harry. Vary your hand movement and they key is, move
on from the base. Do not concentrate too much on the base and the length. Most
of the nerve endings are on the head of the penis. Lubrication is also a must,
not too sloppy and not too dry.
It’s a way of being spontaneous.....
Hand jobs are a way of getting out of monotony and a way of
mixing up our foreplay.
It is a way to go if you are not ready for sex....
If you do not want to have penetrative sex then this is one
of the ways to go. Also if you do not like blow-jobs, a hand job is an option.
It is a way for him not to do anything.....
And for you to watch his reactions as you do it- but do
not stare or leer at someone creepily. This is for women who are selflessly in
love and can be devoted to it. We all know men can be lazy, and it applies to
sex too. If you feel like giving him a treat then that is one of the ways to do
It is a work out for your wrist.....
Truth is, it is a
hand JOB for a reason, it is like work because you would like to think that you
are doing your best and also you are not getting anything out of it. Furthermore
your wrists might just end up cramping afterwards.
Some men are just not into it....
Remember when I said what works for Tom might not work for
Harry, it also applies that some men just do not get the point of the hand job.
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