6 ways to get over him quickly
20 November 2015, 16:09
Nairobi - How can you get over breaking up with him quickly?
Delete his contact
That is the quickest and most brutal. Most women delete but
they have it crammed so they just type it out of their brains one drunken night
and call him or text him again. You have a conversation and the following
morning you wonder why. Do not save any his contacts and get rid of whichever
ones you have; that way when you feel like making a stupid mistake you have no
means of doing so.
Don’t go to his social media
Don’t stay up to date on his social life even if it is
inactive it is a way of you going to his page and downloading images that you
can ogle at and cry again. Get over it unfollow him and unfollow everyone else
that you followed because they were a mutual friend. Unfollow!
Take out everything of his around you
Literally clean house; when you have things around you that
remind you of him, you will keep having hope that you will get back together.
Or keep hoping that he will come pick them up so you can talk. Pack everything
away and if you can send it to them or leave it with his watchman but do not
keep them out in the open.
Do not go to the same places you used to go to together
Or places that you know you might ‘bump’ into each other.
Find new places to go to even if you do not have much of a social circle but
avoid the places you got used to while with him. You need to edit him out of
your life ruthlessly.
If you were close to his family stay away from them
It will be hard especially if you had strong ties but it is
not the time for a coffee date with the cousin that will understand your
situation. They will still carry tales; so just stay away from them for a
while. If you meet on the street you can say hi but do not set up to go for an
event or accept invites to gatherings. Stay away!
You can date
Maybe it is a rebound but rebounds are good because they
help you realize it is not the end of the world and there are always more
people out there. So don’t be afraid to date. Do it, have fun and meet new
people; you will heal better and let go of things easier while you are at it.
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