6 types of women to avoid
22 December 2014, 19:13
Nairobi - Most of the time when a woman is in a relationship with her man, she expects him to be walking on eggshells and treat her like a queen because she feels she is doing him a favor by agreeing to be in a relationship with him. In her head, she could always do much better than him and so he should be appreciative. But that is not always the case, if anything, there are women that some men have encountered and they would rather choke on eggshells than be with them. What will make a guy dump the woman, he is currently with and just opt not to be in a relationship at all?
Not that women should take crap from the men that they are with, if anything, they really should place you on a pedestal and roll out a red carpet for gracing his side with your presence. But according to some men, there are women out here whom they are glad to see the last off or are in the process of casting to the shade.
She is too masculine.
Not muscles, but her entire being is a competition against him and what he values most when he chooses you to be his woman. Having a strong will and opinion is not bad, knowing what you want and going after it is also not bad-the difference is how you go about attaining it.
Pushing and shoving on queues, shouting at the top of your voice to be heard, burping competition with his boys will not win you marks in any guys time. If he is there let him do all the heavy lifting, if he is not then you are allowed to do what you want because what he does not know will most certainly not hurt him. Your grooming applies too; hairy legs, armpits, upper lips, sweaty-there is a reason for deodorants, you would rather go chap than none at all. You are not marriage material.
To put it simply, men never waste time. They know what they want, and if you are not it, they move on. They are not into change and trying.
You are full of drama.
Getting into catfights or even fist cuffs with the men. Always looking for ways to stir up trouble. Be a woman that attracts the right kind of attention not the negative kind.
You do not have any sexual attraction or chemistry.
It is okay to believe a relationship can survive without sex until marriage. Abstaining is good, problem comes in when there is no chemistry or attraction. That is something that is just too hard to fake.
An attitude problem.
Anyone would rather have the optimistic mate rather than the pessimist. If you are down, you do not need someone that will help drag you down the hill but someone that will pick you up. If you are one that always looks for the negative side to everything then you understand why everyone runs the opposite direction.
You are just not what he wants.
It is like those very colorful candies you would see in the shop as a kid and be so overjoyed once you had saved enough to buy them. Then when you plop it in your mouth it was rather distasteful, dull and just uninspiring. A guy will dump you if you do not live up to his expectations.
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