6 things women do that men have no clue about
19 October 2015, 21:40
Nairobi - Ladies get away with many things that men have no clue about. Here are some examples.
My husband does not know he is my husband yet!
Men think that they are clever but women take the crown any
day of the week.
The other day I was talking to some ‘man’ in my life. I told
him I was going to give him babies. He says, ‘Uhm what?’ I could feel the
confusion. Then I laughed like ha, ha, ha as if I was joking and told him, ‘I
got you! ‘He relaxed but in my mind I was just thinking about the voodoo I was
about to lay in his life!
You think you got your lady? She got you!
Will I trap him? That is what you are wondering. Relax; I am
not planning to trap anyone. Hakuna haja
ya Nerea hapa….but yes I am about destabilize some man’s way of living.
Ladies, here is how to get him.
Take away what he needs the most
This man is dependent on me talking to him. He has a job
where he gets isolated from everything and he is not going to be texting his buddies. You get it wrong when you think
the more you give something, the more you will get it back. Just because you
are doing so much for someone does not mean they will do the same for you. You
need to take yourself out of the equation and give that man a taste of not
having you around. You know if you are for someone by their response. This is
when you will find out if there were two more of you or if you were really that
important as he said. It hurts when you get a negative response but in my way
of thinking, at least now you know. You know your man, so take away that part
of you he needs the most!
There is nothing wrong with wife duties
The problem is knowing when you should provide them and to
whom. Taking care of your man is not a bad thing the bad thing is when you are
taking care of a man that is not yours. Do not take care of a flip flopper. One
minute he is in and the next he is out. That is not your man. Take care of
someone who deserves it and do it well. I said take away something that he
needs but at times a man has never even had a taste of something. Give it to
him and when he plays, take it away. That is how you play. Women have gotten
married for wife duties so it is not just about you being different but about
whom you choose to do that for.
You need to be your man’s other half
Other half does not mean stalking but whom he can talk to
and tell the things he cannot tell his buddies.
I have never understood a woman’s problem with a man’s friends. They serve a
different purpose from what you do. Take that away and he goes to seek it
elsewhere. You need to be the one he tells things that he cannot tell anyone
else. Men have loads to carry too it is just that they cannot unload it anyway
or anyhow. If you are not his confidant then you have lost the game from the
beginning. You cannot also be that when every time there is a problem you go
and tell his secrets to everyone because you are mad. Throw something or break
something but do not be the one that sells him out.
Most of all, this is the part that matters. Aware of your
competition and aware of where his mind is. You make better decisions that way.
Just because he is talking to two other women at the same time does not mean
you give up. Women are not quitters, so if you know that man is for you, then
up the ante. Give him something that the other two cannot. Also know when to
quit because a man can just not be yours. You need to learn when to let someone
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