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6 things women do that men have no clue about

19 October 2015, 21:40 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Ladies get away with many things that men have no clue about. Here are some examples.

My husband does not know he is my husband yet!

Men think that they are clever but women take the crown any day of the week.

The other day I was talking to some ‘man’ in my life. I told him I was going to give him babies. He says, ‘Uhm what?’ I could feel the confusion. Then I laughed like ha, ha, ha as if I was joking and told him, ‘I got you! ‘He relaxed but in my mind I was just thinking about the voodoo I was about to lay in his life!

You think you got your lady? She got you!

Will I trap him? That is what you are wondering. Relax; I am not planning to trap anyone. Hakuna haja ya Nerea hapa….but yes I am about destabilize some man’s way of living.

Ladies, here is how to get him.

Take away what he needs the most

This man is dependent on me talking to him. He has a job where he gets isolated from everything and he is not going to be texting his buddies. You get it wrong when you think the more you give something, the more you will get it back. Just because you are doing so much for someone does not mean they will do the same for you. You need to take yourself out of the equation and give that man a taste of not having you around. You know if you are for someone by their response. This is when you will find out if there were two more of you or if you were really that important as he said. It hurts when you get a negative response but in my way of thinking, at least now you know. You know your man, so take away that part of you he needs the most!

There is nothing wrong with wife duties

The problem is knowing when you should provide them and to whom. Taking care of your man is not a bad thing the bad thing is when you are taking care of a man that is not yours. Do not take care of a flip flopper. One minute he is in and the next he is out. That is not your man. Take care of someone who deserves it and do it well. I said take away something that he needs but at times a man has never even had a taste of something. Give it to him and when he plays, take it away. That is how you play. Women have gotten married for wife duties so it is not just about you being different but about whom you choose to do that for.

You need to be your man’s other half

Other half does not mean stalking but whom he can talk to and tell the things he cannot tell his buddies. I have never understood a woman’s problem with a man’s friends. They serve a different purpose from what you do. Take that away and he goes to seek it elsewhere. You need to be the one he tells things that he cannot tell anyone else. Men have loads to carry too it is just that they cannot unload it anyway or anyhow. If you are not his confidant then you have lost the game from the beginning. You cannot also be that when every time there is a problem you go and tell his secrets to everyone because you are mad. Throw something or break something but do not be the one that sells him out.

Be aware

Most of all, this is the part that matters. Aware of your competition and aware of where his mind is. You make better decisions that way. Just because he is talking to two other women at the same time does not mean you give up. Women are not quitters, so if you know that man is for you, then up the ante. Give him something that the other two cannot. Also know when to quit because a man can just not be yours. You need to learn when to let someone go.

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