6 signs your relationship is dead
14 August 2015, 15:57
Nairobi - How do you know your relationship is over? Here are tell tell signs.
You have nothing to
Relationships start slow or if you are lucky, you hit it off
right off the bat. But in both cases, you have something to talk about. You are
getting to know someone knew. You want to know where they enjoy spending their
time, their favorite spots, their hobbies, plans and ambitions. You cheer them
on, offering ideas and what not. The high eventually wears off, in the long run
or short run. When you cannot find something to talk about with a partner, the
relationship is over. If you also have to fill the silence with a partner
because it makes you uncomfortable, it is over. You will just know.
You no longer
celebrate special occasions
You do not care at all. In fact if he even forgets that
really pleases you because he will be giving you another reason as to why you
want to call it quits.
You no longer plan and look forward to anniversaries and
birthdays because you just do not want to be in a celebratory mood with him.
The passion is out
Not that you will spend all your time in the bedroom but
that does not mean every glitch, because it happens, means that you are over.
What it is, is that, when you look at your partner and you are no longer
interested in reigniting your physical relationship with them, it might be
over. It is not all sex, but sex is a part of it. You are not brother and
You are interested in sex but just not with them.
You are no longer
interested in him or the relationship
When you like someone, a call or a text from them is the
highlight of your day. When you do not like someone (anymore), you do not
really care if they even have your number anymore. Days can go without seeing
or talking to each other and it is no longer an issue because you are just no
longer interested. You do not even put up an effort and worse you try to
sabotage yourself so that it can just end.
You fight over small
You cannot find things to talk about but when you do, it
usually is an issue or it leads to an argument.
No more dates
A healthy couple is one that finds time to plan something
just for the two of them. Something that they will enjoy together and something
that they will discover together. If you are no longer interested in doing any
of that with your partner, it is a sign. Also when you try to set something up
and they are dodging you, have no time, they are always busy, that is a sign.
You do not want to spend time with him.
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