6 signs your man is insecure
08 December 2015, 14:35
Nairobi - Is your man insecure? Here are the signs?
Gets angry when you spend time with your friends instead of
clearing your whole schedule for him
If you do not have a social life, you will love this because
you are thinking how romantic and attentive the man is. If you have friends on
the other hand, you will notice that he makes plans for you, all the time,
calls it a surprise and gets angry because you made other plans with your
friends. If its weekends, he wants them with you,. At lunch, he wants to go to
lunch or bring it to you. He just does not have anything outside of you like
interests, friends and /or hobbies.
Checking up on you all the time
The odd good morning text, not bad; a phone call at the end
of your day, not bad either. Bad is when the guy wants you to have your phone
in hand all the time and keep texting and when its lunch hour, that means you
are free for him to call. Wherever he is, he is just not even concentrating on
what he is doing but obsessing on what you are doing and with who and is the
colleague male or female.
He is already planning your life together
A man that is dating you not because he wants to waste your
time but because he is thinking you are the one for him gets props. But he goes
step by step and not just rushing into it on the second date. It might seem
romantic when on the second date he tells you he wants you to be the mother of
his children and you blush because that is what you want too. On the other
hand, learn to spot desperation and read those signs for what they are. Why is
he is in so much of a hurry and why did he pick you. The simple answer is never
love most of the time.
Keeps bringing up your ex
Some people can still talk to and be friends with an ex or
two. For this guy, it will set off bad alarm bells even if nothing has happened
like a phone call or text. The fact that you just have their number means that
the two of you might still have something going on. Letting someone know about
an ex is okay but when they keep bringing it up all the time even asking you to
compare the two of them and when they ask that they want you to say they are
better (especially when they bring it up during sex); that should set off alarm
bells for you.
He needs re-assurance about your situation
He keeps asking you what the two of you are to each other.
Why you like him. What you find attractive about him; for him to feel as if you
are not already losing interest in him. He wants to find out whether he has
solid ground with you or you are still looking. He gets mad when you pause on
your answers or have to take time to think on it. The man might even sulk if
you tell him to give you time to think about it.
Wanting to meet your family
A man wanting to meet your family is not a bad thing. You
can tell a lot about someone through their family but that is after you two
have actually gotten to know each other some more and it is the next step
because you are actually in a relationship. But when you are still dating
someone and they are already making those plans it is because they want to
cement themselves to the family. When he does meet them, he over does it with
the niceties to give the impression that he is the one for you and to get your
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