6 signs your man is faking it
09 February 2015, 18:51
Nairobi - Sometimes when you are dating someone, you just get clues
that tell you to drop him and move on but you choose to ignore them because you
are tired of looking for new people to see. Or you have a lot on your plate and
do not have the time to look. Regardless at times it is better to move on than
to stick it out because you may be the Julie for Monday or Sandy for Saturday;
just look out for the signs and dump him from your schedule.
He thinks you should be open minded about your relationship
He is not in a rush to make it exclusive with you and
neither is he too interested when it comes to you dating other people. That is
because he is just not serious about you and is still exploring his options out
He never uses your name
It can be a text or a
phone call but most times just as a man can forget to do his laundry he can
also forget which women he is currently seeing. So he uses one term to refer to
them; babe/ honey/ sweetheart and yet you are in the beginning of the
relationship. If a man has not given you the title yet he has a term of
endearment for you that should be a red-light.
The nonchalant friends
Or the overly
friendly ones. A man’s friends clue you in not only on his character but also
on his habits. When you meet a guy’s groupie and they show either of those two
signs it just means they see him with a lot of women and they come and go. Most
probably they met Cathy last night and they are trying to remember what he
introduced you as.
You have never been on a date
Men who are
interested in the women they want go out of their way to treat them. If he
insists you split the bill, or if at the end of the date you rationalize that
since you are the one that asked him out, you should be the one to pay the
bill. Then you have never been on a date with that man.
He is only available on his terms
You look for him,
call him or text him and you get no response. But when he is bored he suddenly
resurfaces so that the two of you can catch up and do something then you should
not be flattered because he does not treat you as you should be treated.
He cannot keep his story together
You are out then he
narrates a particular event, or maybe he mentions something but last time he
said something different. One of the reasons may be that he does not remember
what he told you because he feels he told that other girl he was with last time
or he is blatantly lying because he knows he is not in it for anything
You do not meet anyone he knows and he
does not want to meet people you know
People who do not
want to commit to the person they are with go out of their way not to let them
into their lives. He will also not be interested to do anything with you or go
to any social events with you. In his head he knows that the less involved he
is the easier for him to cut it off.
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