6 sex blunders men make
26 February 2015, 15:47
Nairobi - Men are not superheroes. They also make mistakes in bed. Many mistakes. Here are some.
Just going in there (Not being into foreplay)
There is a reason why woman ask for foreplay, not because
they are trying to get you to be a romantic or make you do something you do not
want to do thus enjoy yourself less. Foreplay is a way through which the female
body prepares itself for penetration. Just because you are ready to go means
that she is too. If she is then good for you but most of the time it takes time
and effort especially after a hard day at work.
Not knowing what you are doing but instead of asking you act
like you do
The men who pinch (nipples-it can be painful by the way
especially when tugging and pulling is involved). The men who keep long nails
and then use them, first of all it is not only disgusting but unhygienic
especially if put in the wrong places. Second, it is painful (when put in the
Asking does not make you look stupid but makes you
considerate because it shows her that you care for her pleasure as well. Also
asking is good, because what works for another person will not work for
everyone else. Sex is a learning curve for all parties involved.
Not knowing what the clitoris is
First of all you need a biology lesson, if that does not
appeal to you then what is google for? Also women are different just like you
men are: ‘where Sarah’s is, is not where Jane’s will be. There is a reason the
female orgasm is elusive; because a lot of people expect that penetrative sex
is the answer. It is not, most women who experience an orgasm can only do so
through clitoral stimulation.
The aforementioned long, dirty nail(s), sweat, bad breath
and body odor. If you want her to smell good, you should make an effort to do
the same for her as well. It will be an unproductive process if you tell her to
work on her hygiene while yours is not stellar.
Since you are done, everyone else is also done
She will say she is satisfied because she is trying to
please you and stroke her ego. But make her comfortable enough with you for her
to admit that she is not there yet.
No pillow talk
As much as it grates
on your nerves and sensibilities that she wants to talk afterward; just try. It
has no cure. It will get you more game as compared to when you roll over and
doze off. If it is too hard a grunt will suffice, just to show that you are
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