6 hard to find male characteristics women want
14 October 2015, 17:34
Nairobi - What is harder to find in the world than a good man?
A man without a child
These days having a child without the proper terms between
the couple/we can also say people because people are not being serious with
their one night stands has become quite the cool thing. Men are not being
careful with their equipment and they are giving children to anyone these days.
Once is okay. Twice and then a third time, is he looking for the charm or what?
It is safe to say when you are dating someone ask him, ‘how many baby mammas do
you have?’ A man without a child is there but if he has that one in shape, look
if he has the other ones listed because chances are he doesn’t.
A man that is stable
If he has this one, then trust me someone tried to trap him
at one point and so it is very likely he has a child with someone he is no
longer together with. The question then becomes are you willing to deal with
the baby mother and his child if you choose to commit to him. If not, you lose
him and have to look again. A very stable guy; financially, in the mind and in
his work is a pretty hard one to let go off once you find and that is why women
choose to deal with someone they knew they could not handle.
A man that has figured out his priorities
School, career, life and himself; you can find that problem with
this one is that he will either have no time for you or a relationship. No time
to start or spend with the family you might make. So you get what you want but
it is a frustrating lonesome journey because he has ambition and he has a
checklist that is never ending. Find a man with time, no priorities. Find a man
with time, no time for you and what you want.
A man that won’t cheat
This one is not a hard find. Guys have the capability of
being loyal you just have to know when to put your foot down and establish your
boundaries where he is concerned. A man will flirt just to see your reaction,
let him get away with it, next time it is something more extreme and personal.
If you allow it then it is like something clicks in his head, ‘I can do what I
want, this one won’t do anything!’
A man that has no record
In Kenya I am so sure we would have many of these if people
did not have a ‘chat’ with the policeman while on their way there. That is why
your man has no police record even though he has been caught countless times
driving under the influence. He has a record, only that he is the one that is
aware of it. You will hear about it when he is telling your grandchildren about
that time he spent a night at some jail.
A man that is ready for you
Someone who is ready to commit? I have a friend living in
the UK who is doing some Masters in some field. She left a man here, not even
her boyfriend who is settled, posh living and doing what you ladies would call very well. He calls her every time to
tell her to come back home so that he can marry her. She is only 23. She is
from Nyeri; I asked her if she could cut someone’s anatomy off, she said yes
very proudly. Does that scare the guy? No! He wants her more than he cares for
his anatomy it seems. Also she has options and none of her siblings are married
she is the last born. See where I am going with this? The last thing on this
girl’s mind is marriage to anyone. Funny thing is, the men are more ready to
commit now unlike the women. Problem is they are the ones who have no
priorities and if they do, they are trying to get on with some schedule so that
they can say they have accomplished that goal. Do you want that? Because you
are a goal, reach it then move on to the next one.
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