5 ways to get them in love with you
25 August 2015, 18:29
How do you catch their attention?
Be their friend first
In my opinion; if you ever have a hope in hell of avoiding
the friend zone, you have to go in guns blazing. You have to let this person
know. Yes I like you. Yes, I want us to be friends. And no, I am not calling
you late at night to hear about what your crush, ex-man did but I want to have
a sex chat with you. I am interested in you and I want you as my woman or man.
If you ever allow a person to give you a sob story twice and you are the one
that called; you even give them advice; you are in the friend zone already.
Establish a connection
Meet this person. Get to know them. When they say establish
a connection, they mean in those two dates you have already had or
conversations. Do you have the same interests? Do they like you? Would you have
sex with them… and enjoy it?
They do not mean, wait two years for them to get out of the
bad relationship while you give them advice to hold on. That is stupid. That is
not establishing a connection but establishing a therapeutic session where you
are not even getting paid for it.
Show them you are ‘girlfriend/ wife’ or ‘boyfriend/ husband’ material
And Santa also lives in North Pole and still makes it to
Africa to give us presents in the night. You are just giving this person
opportunity to exploit you for free while they run around with the hopeless and
use you as a band aid. Then they get back on track until the next crash. If you
are a man, make a woman earn you and your interest. If you are a woman make a
man earn you and your interest. You can’t be that cheap.
Giving out freebies! Have you ever seen a customer instantly
become loyal in the supermarket? They will taste that fresh juice then you will
see them with a two liter Coke bottle in their trolley after you have just
quenched their afternoon thirst.
You have to give it time
For what? If they don’t like you, they don’t like you. Move
on and look for someone who does. If they can’t stand you kissing them, the sex
will not be great either. They are not the only kind of their species. Yes,
they would have looked good on your arm but remember you can always make
someone look as good as you or even better. Are you waiting for them to get
over a bad relationship or a bad experience? Wait, but wait while you are
keeping other people company. Do not be someone’s convenient store. “You were
there, so you will do!”
Wait for the right opportunity
Refer to the above explanation. If they are here, now,
single and what you like. Tell them. Get a response and work from there.
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