5 things women should NEVER do to men
27 November 2015, 19:00
Nairobi - You love your man? There are things you should never do to him. NEVER!!
Criticism in front of anyone
Never do that. That is the simplest advice I can ever give
you. In front of family-even his, relatives, friends or co-workers. Even the
simplest joke can make anything go from 1-100 really quick. It is a joke until
you all get home and he is not in the right mood.
Making decisions without consultation
I am not talking about groceries or what pen to buy. I am
talking about when you are about to change jobs or move careers. The worst part
is when someone else tells him in a gathering and you never did. He is making
his decisions based on what the two of you talked about (hopefully. Because I
know there are rats). So if he is telling you, do tell him. If you are both
building a future with each other it matters because no one wants to be left
This should have been number one but whatever. I always tell
non-married people they have the best cut because you go out and do whatever
then act stupid. But if you are together some purchases are important and it
all needs to be a decision because their money is your money. No matter how you
choose to look at it.
Talking about them
Your relationship is your relationship; not your mother’s
sister’s or anyone’. Asking for advice is good but if you chose that sex, it is
your crutch. Do not go and start talking about how small anyone is or not
satisfying. It is yours. If you had an argument, it is your argument. Some
things are better left unsaid. That is the rule of better relationships. If he
is your husband, he is yours.
Bringing your mother in to make a decision
Consultation has never been bad but a solution from your
mother is not always good. Your mother is a consultation; you are the decision
maker. Do not make it a; ‘My mother is coming’ situation. It is not hers. She
will get buried alone, just like you will.
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