5 things women hate about men
19 November 2015, 14:56
Nairobi - Women love men, but hate some things about them too.
When you lie about having another woman
I would rather you let me know from the beginning so that I
make the choice to stay or leave on my own account. No woman wants to be a
man’s second option or fall back when he is going through ‘something’. She gets
into it thinking she is the only cat on the tree. She invests herself in the
relationship thinking it is going somewhere then she finds out you have a wife
or family already. That destroys a woman’s trust and if she was heavily
invested she becomes suspicious of every other man who has never done anything
to her. When your woman is acting like an FBI agent and you never did anything,
it is not you but the one who came before you.
Violence and abuse
Women are the ‘weaker’ sex literally, like if it came to
fighting you, most of us cannot. When we look for our potential beau we are
obviously more drawn to someone of bigger build than ours because we are hoping
what we cannot do-defend ourselves-he will. So when you turn that against her,
from her protector to her abuser, how do you expect her to actually trust you;
if she can no longer do that with her own person?
Lying about your finances
She looks good, she is just what you want but you know she
likes money. What will most men do in such a situation? Tell her the truth and
let her decide? No; if a man has set his mind that she is the one he wants, he
will come up with a profession and life that he has no clue about. Do not do
that, because the fall out will be worse and even if the two of you had already
built something good. The foundation was all a lie she will always be
suspicious of you even when you say you are going to work. Do you even work
because you look like you can also lie about that too?
Not handling your responsibilities
It does not necessarily have to be with her but she looks at
how you handle yourself and your child if you have any. If you are having a
problem taking care of the one you have now with another woman what business
does she have trying to have more with you?
Lying about yourself
It is not a bad thing trying to create a good impression to
someone when the two of you are initially dating but remember what you say will
resurface later and when it comes out not to be true but a hoax; you lose.
There is nothing wrong with saying where you grew up or where you went to
school and having a struggle; they made you who you are today. But most people
would rather paint a false picture and make someone have a completely different
perception of them which always creates a wrong impression. False foundation,
not trust and thus no relationship.
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