5 signs your man wants to dump you
14 January 2015, 18:07
Nairobi - When a man is done with a relationship most of the time he never tells you. He hopes that that female intuition that all women have will kick in and do the trick for him. But most of the time it never works especially if the woman wants to believe that maybe this is it; the relationship that will lead to wedded bliss.
So he will resort to severe tactics just so that you will know it is over. When a man wants you to break up with him, he will:
He will avoid making plans with you and will be explicit about it
You will be trying to look for time so that the both of you can do something together, but he will tell you his preference. Either it is going to the club with that friend you do not like, a road trip which you are not invited, and an office event which he talks about or puts the card on the table yet he does not invite you. He will just look for ways to spend less and lesser time with you hoping that you will see he is no longer interested with you.
When you are seeing someone, it is all fun and exciting. The both of you go out of your way to please the other. The man especially will walk on eggshells where you are concerned and will avoid doing anything that he knows will displease you.
Now that he is no longer interested he will be honest with you when it comes to some things especially those he knows will tick you off. Your food is bad, you have gained weight or if you ask him whether some woman is pretty. He will be honest in the hopes that you will see him as a jerk and call things off.
He does not care about cancelling on you
When someone wants to be with you, they will find the time, does not matter how small the window but they will find the time. If a guy is bored with your relationship and wants to move on, he will cancel on you at the drop of a hat and most times he will not bother with an excuse.
He wants to take a break
A relationship can at times be either overwhelming or underwhelming. Can be boredom from routine, arguments or he is not ready for the commitment that you want. Asking for a break can at times be what you actually really need.
He falls off the surface of the earth
If all else fails, he just cuts off all forms of communication. Makes for an uncomfortable situation if you two were living together and you have no idea where your supposed boyfriend is.
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