5 signs of sexual selfishness
02 September 2015, 15:40
How can you be selfish sexually?
You never initiate
Ever! Your partner has to be the one to bring it up. This
can be an uncomfortable position for them because there is always that time
that you will reject them because you are not in the mood. Then there are the
ones that know when you are about to ask and they get a nasty look on their
face to fob you off. In the end an everyday no becomes non-existent and your
sex life perishes slowly.
Once you are done you
Not men alone know how to roll over and sleep. Women can
too. If she knows how to get herself off quickly, she will and as soon as she
is done- fall asleep. ‘I did not know you were going to last this long (after
5minutes) and I am tired.’
You like receiving but
you are not a great believer in giving
If someone gives you oral without you asking is because they
hope that you will return the favor. If you had the nerve to ask, then prepare
yourself to return the favor. I am not saying you stick your mouth in
everything but just laying out the expectations. If it is your husband or long
term boyfriend; if it is your wife or long term girlfriend-turnabout is fair
play unless they expressly told you they are not interested. In which case, you
are either terrible at it, they are getting it from elsewhere or they just do
not like it. You know your partner, so take a pick.
Sex is only in your
vocabulary when you are in the mood
But not when they are in the mood. You also pretty much do
not care if they sulk afterwards because until you are in need, you are not
interested. They had better find a way to match their sexual need to yours and
it had better not be through porn or cheating with someone else.
You are not interested
in making it good for your partner
Missionary works well for you. All the other stuff that
claim bringing adventure into the bedroom are none of your business. We are
either procreating or I am relieving my stress then we are done. If they ask,
they had better have tangible ways of making it worth your while.
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