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5 signs of sexual selfishness

02 September 2015, 15:40 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - How can you be selfish sexually?

You never initiate

Ever! Your partner has to be the one to bring it up. This can be an uncomfortable position for them because there is always that time that you will reject them because you are not in the mood. Then there are the ones that know when you are about to ask and they get a nasty look on their face to fob you off. In the end an everyday no becomes non-existent and your sex life perishes slowly.

Once you are done you are done

Not men alone know how to roll over and sleep. Women can too. If she knows how to get herself off quickly, she will and as soon as she is done- fall asleep. ‘I did not know you were going to last this long (after 5minutes) and I am tired.’

You like receiving but you are not a great believer in giving

If someone gives you oral without you asking is because they hope that you will return the favor. If you had the nerve to ask, then prepare yourself to return the favor. I am not saying you stick your mouth in everything but just laying out the expectations. If it is your husband or long term boyfriend; if it is your wife or long term girlfriend-turnabout is fair play unless they expressly told you they are not interested. In which case, you are either terrible at it, they are getting it from elsewhere or they just do not like it. You know your partner, so take a pick.

Sex is only in your vocabulary when you are in the mood

But not when they are in the mood. You also pretty much do not care if they sulk afterwards because until you are in need, you are not interested. They had better find a way to match their sexual need to yours and it had better not be through porn or cheating with someone else.

You are not interested in making it good for your partner

Missionary works well for you. All the other stuff that claim bringing adventure into the bedroom are none of your business. We are either procreating or I am relieving my stress then we are done. If they ask, they had better have tangible ways of making it worth your while.

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