5 signs he is NOT interested in you
05 February 2016, 15:29
Nairobi - He is not interested in you. How do you know?
You are no longer
invited to spend time with his friends
The faster they realize that you two are no longer an item,
the faster they can stop asking questions about it. You will eventually become
a non-issue for them to keep bringing up to him. That way, they also do not ask
him who the new addition is when he brings her around.
You are completely cut
off from his family
It is just like above. You end up finding out about family
functions he went to or has been invited to from a stray card, email or
message. You wait for him to mention it but he never does. On the D-day, he
just goes off alone when you already bought a dress thinking he was intending
to surprise you. Then there is the family member you meet in town and they just
ask you why you were not around on a certain event and that your ‘nani’ made excuses for you. Apparently
you were in bed dying of malaria.
When you mention missing a certain relative of his that he
really likes or haven’t seen in a while he just brushes you off
casually-because he is very soon no longer going to be any of your concern
neither will any member of his family.
He no longer bothers
to hide his phone or anything
If you find it on your own, the better for him because you
will just instigate the break up by yourself.
Let me explain to you something as woman, that moment when
you are feeling proud and cannot take it any longer and you huff and puff and
he just says okay. So you are thinking we need space but let him think he has
lost me. You give it a week or two but nothing from him; you gave the guy what
he wanted. This is when the tables are turned and you are chasing him thinking
he is playing hard to get. Most of the time, he was worried on how to end the
relationship and when you did it, he sighed inwardly that that chapter was
closed. You just never put two and two together. Easy way out, by your hand and
if he has moved on quickly; that man is making a fool out of you thrice as you
waste your time on something that is no longer yours.
Work has been piling
He no longer has any free time. When a man goes out if his
way to be out of your way, constantly even when you want to come to him; read
it as a sign of bad things to come.
When he eventually
even makes time for you it is all lacklustre
He does not make the effort to be interesting, charming or
just have a good casual conversation. He draws back and you need to snap him
back in. He is quiet and too much in his head to pay attention to you. When you
snap at his he just shrugs and brushes it off like, ‘whatever!’.
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