5 signs he is husband material
30 September 2015, 13:54
Nairobi - Is he the one for you? Here's ways to know.
He always puts your needs first
No matter what, he always does. In today’s relationships a
lot more men are asking for equal footing in a relationship, in EVERYTHING
because we said we wanted equality. It takes a really good man to understand
you as his women and not bring any bias issues in your relationship. It takes a
really good man to look out for your needs and those of your children then
consider himself. If you have that and get that on a daily basis then roll with
it before another women sees this and takes it away from you
Even when he is upset, he is sure to make you feel okay
A lot of us have a partner that when they are angry we
either a. stay out of their way because they really scare us or b. stay out of
their way because they just become somebody else that we do not want to deal
with. If your partner does not do any of the above and even while confronting
him he is just calm and not getting out of control: saying mean things and
lashing out at you then that is a person whom you should give an ear to because
they deserve it.
He stands up for you
Not all partners stand up for their women. In fact when it
comes to it most think it is ‘manly’ when they stay out of it; if you get into
a bar brawl that is absolutely right. But when he stands up for you against his
family, friends, colleagues and associates when they pick on you; then you have
got yourself a keeper.
He is there for you in your bad times
We all wish for that but we all do not get that. We all
assume that we have that but we don’t. We are with our partners but at times we
tend to overlook the things that really matter. The point is, if you have that,
appreciate it. Do not take it for granted. Do not make your partner sweat over
little things when they provide you with the larger picture. You have a keeper
if they have been there for you in the celebration and in the sorrowful times.
He includes you in whatever is going on in his life
Adventure, hobbies, travel, day to day, home, work and just basically everything. You do not need
any other sign that he wants you in his life because he is letting you in
everyday through his actions. You do not have to fight for it like most women
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