5 relationships tips for the Kenyan woman in 2015
09 January 2015, 18:41
Nairobi - This mostly goes for us women since we are the ones who are
usually in situationship kind of relationships and get emotional since we try
to evade the logical route to make excuses for people we see.
Your girlfriends are the reason you are single
Trying to attract his attention while you are surrounded
with the pack will not get you anywhere, even if you are the one doing the
approaching. Chances are there in the background one of your girlfriends is
telling you, he is not that attractive, he does not look like he has made it,
he looks like a wimp; and chances are she also wants him but will not tell you,
even if you saw him first. Girl code and man code is a thing our mothers and
fathers followed, these days people are implementing the me- code. Do not be
the one left wondering what happened. It is the hunger games, and the prize is
what you want, if you are waiting to be told what it is then you have already
His phone did not get lost or has malfunctioned
For a full proof method, activate the message delivery
service, that way you will not get confused. He saw the text you sent, if it is
a week later before a reply comes through, move on, because chances are he has
a wife or a girlfriend or just not that interested. As women we do need to
learn how to take rejection especially when it comes to relationships, that is
basically the first step in survival in this game. Men have been doing it a
long time, here is something else we can copy from them too.
Label the relationship
Do not get yourself in a situation where you cry foul yet it
is you who chose to settle. When you get a booty call, it is your choice how
you choose to respond to it. If you are already at his house making demands for
a relationship before you get down to business, then you are confused. No man
will tell you that he is not ready for a relationship and it is 2pm and his
bedroom door is a few feet away. As soon as he gets what he wants then the only
communication you will now be having is DMing on twitter.
Do not tell the man how many men you have been with
Men have a very irrational approach to sex. They are dating you,
they know you have been in other relationships, they do not want a virgin but
you had better be a virgin. To put it simply you should have had only one lover
at most if you are not a virgin. Does not matter if you are 20, 30 or 40-it
applies for all across the spectrum.
Get a man who calls you
The simplest courtesy a man can pay a woman he is interested
in is giving her a call, if it is just texts and likes on Facebook, then get
his number off your speed dial because you deserve better. Texts do not cut it
but do not expect hour long conversations, five minutes should do it. It can be
boring having to think of things to say, be able to cut it short and leave him
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