5 reasons your relationship is boring
27 June 2016, 19:36
Nairobi - ‘The grass is greener on the other side.’ It is not. There
are two friends of mine that are talking about jumping back into the single
pool because they do not like their current situation. I told them they would not
like it but they just gave a couple of shallow problems to justify their
You rushed into it
with the wrong person
One of them said, ‘you will not make me boring because you
are boring.’ I was like, ‘well, hell, didn’t you know this person before
committing to them?’ The idea that the grass is always greener on the other
side is the reason people end up with people they are not compatible with. You
are jumping from one point to the other looking for that fulfillment but the
moment you are in it, you realize that you are in it for all the wrong reasons
and with the wrong person.
You are over the high
That period that is normally referred to as the honey moon
period. It usually fades and if the both of you had nothing else bringing you
together other than lust or some other fickle thing, you will eventually get
tired of each other. You need to find common interests with your partner or
things you can enjoy doing together so that you do not get to that point. It
normally ends up with one person trying to dodge the other.
You had no foundation
The reason you will be advised by someone to take time apart
as you get excited over someone is because you actually need it. We all say the
right things and do the right things while caught up in the moment of a love
interest. Take time away from them to ask yourself what else is there or are
you just moving too fast.
Try eating the same supper for one full month and see how
that goes. You will get tired that you will even just want to sleep hungry some
days. That is the same thing with relationships. It applies in it all;
conversation, sex, the drama and all that other stuff that brought you
interest with other people
When you start connecting more with people that you are not
with and wishing you were with them other than this person you are with now.
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