5 reasons women should also approach men
03 September 2015, 17:39
Nairobi - Waiting for the men to make a move in your life can be a bit
tedious. Worse, the ones who actually approach you are not the ones you are
interested in. If you keep waiting and waiting and darting longing glances at
the guy you actually want, it never happens. You have to make a move or you
will continue having flings with a long list of guys who are not good for you.
He is shy
Men can be shy too. Gender roles can be reversed to
especially when it comes to dating and relationships. If you are also shy, you
will know that he will never make a move and he will continue talking to that
chatty receptionist you do not like. You will have to take one for the team if
you want this guy. Take the lead, go ask him out and give him some
encouragement. You might just find he was also interested.
This guy makes the effort
Have you ever noticed how; the guys you are really
interested in do not make the effort. And you overlook the guys who make the
effort because they are just too nice.
What is being too nice? I thought women like men who make them feel nice. Give
the guy who is making an effort a chance. He might just surprise you because he
is already coming from a positive place and you are not going to wonder if you
are forcing him. He is there, showing you how good he can be as your man. So
ask him out.
He is making the move but not vocalizing them
Rejection is not something a lot of people can take easy. So
they go for action rather than saying what it is they actually want. Calling
you, asking about your day, offering to take you out and coming to see when you
are not feeling well. Those are moves men interested in you make. So it will be
up to you, to ask if they would like a date. If you wait, this guy may never
get around to it.
Catch him staring
Sometimes, it is not the person you know but the person you
do not yet know. If you are in a public place and catch someone who you might
like staring, go ask them for their number and ask them out. Maybe they are
staring because your skirt is torn, who cares? Fix it and maybe you might get
away with a date as well.
You have been friends
You started out as friend but as time went on you realized
you might just like to date this person. So go ahead and ask them. Most people
do not ask because they are afraid of the awkward moment. Especially men, they
are so afraid of the friend zone they rarely do anything to get out of it. Make
the move if you are interested in them.
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