5 reasons to talk about sex
07 March 2016, 19:24
Nairobi - 5 reasons to speak about sex with your partner.
Do not discuss your
sexual history or sex past
The only thing you should discuss in that category is your
sexual health-obviously. If you do not talk or ask someone about their history
because you are too afraid, then it is never in your place to blame them for
getting you with anything. Just like you were avoiding bringing it up; they
were avoiding to let you know. Thusly, it is your fault.
Are you exclusive?
A lot of people avoid the exclusivity talk until after sex
because they are hoping to change someone’s mind with their sexual prowess. So,
while you are praying that they are seeing how good you are and they will give
you the title; they are also testing other people’s waters. In other words, you
are dipping your hands in a pot that other people are also dipping their hands
in. Make sure you are exclusive to prevent complications; not just diseases but
have you ever heard of three women falling pregnant by one man at the same
time? Now you get it.
Some people like it in the morning; others don’t like to be
rushed. Some people like it an night because it is relaxing after a long day
and believe it or not some people would be perfectly fine with it once a
week. Find a partner that compliments
your preferences-you avoid cheating and complaints that way.
What you like and what
you cannot stomach
Sex…good sex is just communication. That is all. If someone
is not agreeing with you; that is why they are not the only fish in the say
because at the end of the day, who wants to deal with cheating due to
How you will approach
Sex will not always be fun if you let routine take over.
That is why for some they sulk, don’t speak, and complain because they do not
want to approach the problem head on. If one of you notices it first, take care
of it unless you are ready to lose the whole relationship as well.
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