5 reasons I don't want to date
03 December 2015, 21:12
Nairobi - I don't like dating. Here's why.
When you ask and they say no
Don’t be too offended even though you think you are better
than anything they could ever come across. Everyone is allowed their
preferences. You will say it is shallow of them but think of it this way, you
are also not going out their thinking, ‘I really want that not so good-looking
guy/ woman’. You go out there with a list that outlines the best qualities you
are looking for.
Baggage, even you have them
So don’t be so shallow as to try and tell someone you cannot
be with them because of one mistake or the other they tried to rectify. You are
not so perfect either.
It might just be you and not everyone else
If all of your dates end up with them moving on and you
being left behind; you might have to do a re-evaluation of yourself and figure
out what you are doing wrong. It is easier to blame other people when you think
you are on higher ground.
Doing the same things will always get you the same results
You will not find what you have been looking for if you keep
looking in the same place. Mix it up or change it up a little and get out of
your comfort zone.
First impressions are usually distorted
By the third date you might just realize you don’t like what
you thought you wanted. Back to square one.
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