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5 reasons he has not called again

03 August 2015, 18:31 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - The title is a courteous way of saying, ’why he decided to disappear from your life!’

Having to explain yourself face to face is never palatable at times

Do you remember those parent-teacher meet ups that you had to be there and the teacher would tear you apart on your strengths and weaknesses as you sat meekly and appreciatively. Just imagine all those flaws you may have. Others you do know about, others you do not. Do you want every guy that has let you down, sit you down and tear you part the same way? Especially if they are/ were that IT factor for you?

He was leading you on

Women do it and so can men do it too. What started out something exciting and interesting and something hopeful at times turns out sour and not what their expectations are. Instead of informing the other party earlier on before they get too caught up, most people choose to keep quiet and just continue with the situation. You are there still being hopeful but they are strategizing on how to drop out of your grid because they already knew that it was not going to go past a few phone calls, texts or he first date. So they just disappear and lose contact. Aka, never pick up your calls.

It was never that serious

After two or three dates and the woman asks ‘what are we?’ Creates an itinerary for their new life and start re-arranging her whole life. What are we? You were never nothing yet and by rushing it, he just chose to escape because he wanted to take the time to know you at least. When you try rush something that has not gotten into that stage, panic attack comes in and the person becomes a flight risk.

You turned out not to be what he expected/ wanted

A man can also tell when a woman has already heavily invested herself into him. It is also prudent for him not to want to face her wrath when he explains that turns out she is not what he wants. So he chooses to disappear until she gets the point. Cowardly but it still served his purpose whether you want to see it that way or not.

You show ‘funny’ behaviors

Funny, not in an amusing way but in a scaring him away kind of way. Some things a woman does while he is still gets to know her informs him of what he can expect when she is not on her best behavior. If he does not like it, cannot put up with it or knows he will not be able to handle it; he disappears.

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