5 reasons he has not called again
03 August 2015, 18:31
Nairobi - The title is a courteous way of saying, ’why he decided to
disappear from your life!’
Having to explain yourself face to face is never palatable at times
Do you remember those parent-teacher meet ups that you had
to be there and the teacher would tear you apart on your strengths and
weaknesses as you sat meekly and appreciatively. Just imagine all those flaws
you may have. Others you do know about, others you do not. Do you want every
guy that has let you down, sit you down and tear you part the same way?
Especially if they are/ were that IT factor for you?
He was leading you on
Women do it and so can men do it too. What started out
something exciting and interesting and something hopeful at times turns out
sour and not what their expectations are. Instead of informing the other party
earlier on before they get too caught up, most people choose to keep quiet and
just continue with the situation. You are there still being hopeful but they
are strategizing on how to drop out of your grid because they already knew that
it was not going to go past a few phone calls, texts or he first date. So they
just disappear and lose contact. Aka, never pick up your calls.
It was never that serious
After two or three dates and the woman asks ‘what are we?’ Creates
an itinerary for their new life and start re-arranging her whole life. What are
we? You were never nothing yet and by rushing it, he just chose to escape
because he wanted to take the time to know you at least. When you try rush something
that has not gotten into that stage, panic attack comes in and the person
becomes a flight risk.
You turned out not to be what he expected/ wanted
A man can also tell when a woman has already heavily
invested herself into him. It is also prudent for him not to want to face her
wrath when he explains that turns out she is not what he wants. So he chooses
to disappear until she gets the point. Cowardly but it still served his purpose
whether you want to see it that way or not.
You show ‘funny’ behaviors
Funny, not in an amusing way but in a scaring him away kind
of way. Some things a woman does while he is still gets to know her informs him
of what he can expect when she is not on her best behavior. If he does not like
it, cannot put up with it or knows he will not be able to handle it; he
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