5 male truths women need to know
16 November 2015, 19:18
Nairobi - Do you know what is on his mind? Maybe not. Here;s what you need to know.
He can ask for the first date but you might not make it to a
You need to accept that; otherwise, you end up looking
desperate with every conquest you make. When a woman has been single and is now
searching for ‘love’; there is always expectation. When you ask for the first
date, you have no idea how much you have made her day. That is why she will
call all her friends and even ask Instagram what outfit looks better. She goes
to the date with so much expectation and she is hoping she has given him a good
time. Ladies, just go and have fun, if he does not want a second that just
means he is giving you more opportunity to find someone better for you rather
Sex on the first date, second or tenth date
With holding sex will not ensure he sticks around. If you
want to, do it. If he sticks around at least now you know. If he runs away
afterwards, at least you have not wasted your time with someone who was never
interested in you.
Don’t be boring but wait, don’t be dramatic either
You can actually be a boring date. I do not know how it
happens but I guess it is nervous and you trying to impress. Never try to
impress someone on a first date; that comes later after they have earned it.
First couple of dates is you being comfortable around them and finding out if
they are actually worth any effort. In other words, just be yourself and don’t
talk about politics and religion and which church you would like your future
husband to go to.
On the other hand, don’t be a ticking time bomb, screeching
due to lack of service in good time or when someone spills something on you-it
was an accident. How you handle such situations tells someone a lot about you
and whether they would like to stick around for it.
You will never have a good date in a fancy restaurant
That is after you are a couple and have gotten to know each
other and just want something new. While getting to know someone, it will be
awful. You are not able to actually talk because of manners. You stress about
the dress and how not to be too boisterous and the music they play can put you
to sleep. Do something casual and later when you have gotten to know each
You are not there to fix anything
Fixing is for the wives and long-term girlfriends. No man
wants to take a woman on a date that starts telling him how he can improve his
business or change jobs to earn more and have a better lifestyle. If he does
not earn up to your standards; let him go for another one while you look for
the one you want.
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