5 highly likely sex regrets
23 October 2014, 15:23
Nairobi - There are regrets and then there are sex regrets. You do not want the latter to befall you.
Losing your virginity to the wrong person
I am not sure I this is a regret for most men but it can be
for some of us women. There is nothing
wrong with someone being a virgin even at thirty; it’s a personal choice,
unless it is not and there are other underlying issues. But women at times are easily
pressured and rush into things, then after it is done. Not even a day after,
may happen even immediately. You just curse yourself for that momentary lack of
proper decision making. You either do not like that person, it was just not the
time or you were just not ready for the immediate emotional roller-coaster.
Not making a move
At times sexual
chemistry with someone may just be a bit tricky. More times than not, we are in
a relationship, and the chemistry or lack of it does not matter as long as you
can get through the motions. But you meet this person and there is an obvious
spark that does not happen too often. Self-doubt and lack of sexual confidence
makes you hold back. But after that ball is completely out of you court you
spend days, weeks, even months just regretting not having made the move. I am
not saying you force yourself onto people but making the approach once in a
while may help you figure a few things out about yourself.
Read also: 4 things you shouldn’t say after sex
The Unattractive partner
You were drunk, or you might have been going through a
certain period of moods, there is that person whom to you is not in your league
or they are just not as attractive as your usual partners. Afterwards you are
left trying to ward them off because they now think you had that special moment
going which to you, you would rather never remember.
The Sex Road runner
You just want to get
in there as soon as possible, you do not want to even think about it. Moving
too fast when it comes to sex can at times ruin the best
relationships that could have been because one person just could not wait
because they wanted things there on way.
Trying out a certain
Especially in a new relationship, people need to learn to
pick the paces because most of you are left wondering what went wrong or
whether you were just a one night stand. Allow progression in a relationship
before trying out your kinky stuff, you may frighten someone clear off you.
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