5 common sex mistakes women make
24 February 2015, 14:03
Nairobi - Women make mistakes in the bedroom. They just might not know they do. Here are some common ones they make.
Talking, talking, and talking
The biggest complaint men have about their sexual partners
is when they do not communicate and expect them to be mind readers. Not a bad
On the other hand
there are some women who cannot stop talking. They bite your ear off outside
the bedroom and also bite your ear off in the bedroom. They have to give
commentator quips every single minute. Remember that thing they forgot to tell
you about. It just becomes hard to be in the moment with them because they
cannot stop talking.
We are not saying you
become a tomb but it is not the time to remember a bill you forgot to pay. It
just show that you are not in the moment.
Bad hygiene is a turn off; dirt under the nails, sweaty
armpits, body odor and not knowing how to clean up the ‘missus’ and cutting the
grass or so to speak. Some women have bad hygiene. Others have bad hygiene and
do not know what is up, you go to the doctor and get checked. Others have bad
hygiene because they do not know how to go about it. It is inexcusable because
you can use the internet to find out how to keep it clean.You do not even need
to use perfume just be fresh and clean.
Being too giving and too accepting
There is such a thing
especially when you have a selfish lover. When it comes to sex it should be
give and take. What * plants is what he should also sow as well. Do not be too
accepting of someone’s shortfalls especially when most of the time they are
busy complaining how you are not at your best either. If they get to complain
you should be able to do so too.
When you are too
accepting, you allow the man to have the say all the time and you agree with
everything. I am not saying that you should not be open to experimenting but a
perfect example is when he wants to have unsafe or unprotected sex and you go
along with it. You will late regret it because you will be the one left with
One good turn deserves another
Being selfish. Just as the men can be selfish, women too can
be that as well. They do not reciprocate.
For example, if he is one that is not open to give you oral
sex then you should not give him a blowjob. But if he has or is giving you oral
sex then why be selfish? If a man is doing his part to ensure that you get
pleasure then you should do the same too. It is not all oral sex alone though,
sometimes it is the women that turn over and go to sleep. If you orgasm and he
is yet to then you doze off he will be quite resentful if you leave him in a
It is okay if you are living in a one bedroom flat in Umoja and the
neighbors can turn down their sets. On the other hand, you have to give
something to show that you are enjoying yourself unless you are not then you
should also communicate that too. Men are not mind readers you need to find a
way to communicate when something is working for you or when it is not.
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