5 categories men put women
18 November 2015, 19:17
Nairobi - Men put women in many categories. These are the 5 most common.
If a man has just come out of a relationship and he tells
you he is not ready for anything; take that word just as it is. You will stick
around and you will hope that maybe if he gets to know you he will change his
mind. You will be part of his process and that way you will never be anything
more than that because you came at a time he was just trying to move on. You
would rather he did his healing with someone else and come looking for you
later than you wasting your time and finding out he will never get to that
place with you.
A lot of women are placeholders and they do not have any
idea that they are. A placeholder can be given the title of girlfriend but the
thing is you will only be a ‘current’. He will treat you well and be your man
but in his mind he knows you are not the one for him because he is still
looking. He will not tell you that though but let you keep being around just to
The good time girl
Never take that one as a compliment especially when it comes
to the man you are hoping to have more with. If the only time he calls is when
he wants someone to have fun with and he is not afraid to bring you along with
his ‘boys’ while they go out of town; you are just his good time girl.
A cross between almost-wife and sure placeholder; I told you
a lot of women are placeholders and they are not aware of it. It is why that
statement, ‘You were just not for me but here is my wedding invitation’ exists.
You think you are going somewhere with someone but they drop a bombshell on you
because they were just marking time.
Almost-wife is when he is still trying to decide if he
should just jump the loop and makes you the mother of his children. If a man
never talks about a future, children and where you will both live with you or
his plans; you now know where you are. So which are you; girlfriend that is
almost wife or girlfriend that is just a mantel piece.
A man does not have
to put a ring on your finger for him to claim you. How he treats you will let
his people know that you are the wife. Just because someone takes you out and
has given you a key to his place does not mean you are the wife. He just wants
help with the dishes and cleaning. Watch how he shows his respect for you, what
he allows his fellows to talk or curse around you and how he talks about his
family to you.
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