4 ways to land the perfect woman
19 August 2015, 14:32
Nairobi - There are good relationships and perfect ones. Here are four ways to land the perfect one.
Nothing starts off a relationship on a bad footing than
dishonesty. Lie about one thing and it will forever be coming up because she
never trusted you in the first place. Your lie makes her feel like her lie as
long as it is small should never make you feel bad and that is why she will
never be apologetic about it. That is why she will continue making up small
lies to cover up for what she thinks is just a small issue. You are not
comfortable with it, then maybe start being honest in your next relationship
and see how that turns out.
You never know she might have nothing against being a second
wife. Just tell her you have one already!
Be sensitive to her
emotions and feelings
Women and men translate things very differently. Let me tell
you how it plays out. She comes to you and talks to you about something. The
fact that she is talking about it to you, it means that it is important to her.
You do not take it seriously because to you, you are thinking that she is being
petty and female. She takes that and
keeps quiet. You have a problem and you need her to be supportive. It is a big
problem, so you do not expect her to compare it to her small female issues. She will either way and
she will either make your life hell about it or be unsupportive and disruptive
just because you took her small issue as being petty.
If you want a woman who is supportive and loyal to you and
your issues, pay attention to her emotions and feelings and you will never have
to buy it from her. A gift is always nice though. Women like presents.
Every big problem in a relationship usually starts as a
small issue. You never see it coming. Have this in your head and you will
always be one step ahead. With your woman, the smallest gesture every day will
beat any bigger gesture that you do after you mess up. She will remember the
little you do and it will help her be more on your side. It will even make her
forget her issue with you.
Don’t make her nag you every day for you to remember
something. She is tired so cut her some slack especially if it is her turn to
make dinner or if she does not make dinner when she should have. Take care of
the thing she forgot about but you remembered-she will take it as a gift. That
is how men get dedicated girlfriends, from his every day actions. Not the
annual big things and then you mess up every other day.
These days, women are also pussy footing around making commitments. That makes a lot of you
guys angry, because that was your job and now we are also buying into it.
Want a woman who is committed to you from day one, then be
committed to her from day one. The problem with most of us women is that we
commit to the idea you give us from day one and it is VERY hard to get us to
change from it even if you do. If you make us doubt you from day one we always
will doubt you. Now, I am looking outside for someone who would show me that
commitment and not seeing that you are trying to change my mind. Hope you have
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