4 ways to know he is worth it
12 October 2015, 16:38
Nairobi - This weekend I decided to be the bigger person and let
something or a certain someone go so that my girlfriend could have him. Seems
this man thought he could play us both and I would never figure it out. My
snoopy side kicked in and what do you know, even while we were having lunch
together at her house the guy was texting us both. Did I do it for the greater
good? No, I will be honest and say am not that kind. Did the thought of
fighting for what I want, the man, cross my mind. Yes it did for a second
before my logic kicked in. I looked at her then thought if he was worth it and
the answer was a no from me. So I just told her she can have him.
At times just when you think someone is worth all the drama,
you just sit down and really think for a minute if they are worth all that
stress. There is always the next ride that does not have too many passengers on
it, so it’s better to wait for it.
Choose someone who chooses you everyday rather than the one
triple texting two more contenders
Choose someone whom even when busy makes time for you
because you are worth it to them. Not the one that answers yesterday’s texts
today. It is okay to make excuses for someone and think how busy people are but
think of a person who is happy with their partner. Do they drop everything else
just for them, yes they do!
Choose someone who respects you
Someone who likes you would not make time for other people
in their timeline because you are a priority for them. You do not have to haggle
for someone. It is never that serious. Yes, I got way into my feelings but as
fast as I got them, I lost them equally fast over a shot of vodka. You do not
need that kind of disrespect in your life from someone who is going to be that
intimate with you.
Do not waste time on someone who is unsure about you
Time is the only commodity that can never be bought back.
Women complain a lot about men saying that he wasted precious years of your
life only to end up with someone else or not be interested. But that is because
you allowed it. I could have chosen to stick around and have a useless
competition with my friend over this man because apparently there aren’t that
many left. I realized I could equally spend that time looking for someone just
for me. They are all over just get out of your comfort zone and stop being
afraid of approaching men. I do not need
an unfulfilling situationship that has no beginning or end. You don’t either.
Only invest in someone who is obviously, explicitly
investing in you
People do not know the definition of being treated well.
‘But he/she did this that time, its only today that he/she is in a mood.’ If
you use that kind of excuse every time to explain bad behavior, you are
spending your energy and effort on the wrong person. That is why I said; choose
someone who chooses you always.
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