4 ways to get a husband
05 October 2015, 16:19
Nairobi - Not boyfriend, because those ones are really easy and you
are never too sure about them. They like playing too much.
It is like when you are called in for an interview and you
have to present the best version of yourself. You pretend you do not know about
hair dye, cover up your tattoos with foundation and wear only simple studs.
Then you get hired and that is when you put colour in your hair, don’t bother
covering up your tattoos and show all your piercings.
You hide your flaws and he can get surprised later after he
is hooked in. They do it all the time, with their character, so how about you
give him a taste of their own medicine. It is not lying but just getting
yourself a chance in his timeline.
Never get drunk in public
Women do the most when it comes to getting a man but when it
really matters you forget yourself. You go to the coffee shop, decently dressed
and looking up strangers when your man might just be that friend of your friend
you met last week but do not remember because you were drunk. When meeting
friends and going to relax at the local, do not get drunk; just take it easy on
the liquor. No one wants a drunkard wife or a woman who cannot handle her
You can dress neatly, you can dress sexy but you cannot
Your morals are going to be his child’s, his daughter’s
morals. This is when you need to show the better side of yourself. You can tell
a lot about a woman with the way she dresses. You can tell how comfortable she
is with herself. You can tell if she respects herself. Just from dressing.
Do not just be a good time girl
Having a big ass and big boobs is pretty nice but he can tap
that and move on. You do not have to stand on the table in the club and do not
have to flirt with everyone to show how in demand you are. Simplicity at times
goes a long way. Capture someone’s attention and have an intelligent
conversation once in a while. Find out about their day, hell; find out if they
have a wife. Talk about their work and engage him in a conversation that does
not just involve your latest fetish.
You cannot have two people in your circle that you have had
We date out of our circle for a reason; no man wants to know
that the other three people he is talking to have seen it. No man wants to have
a wife two of his new friends knew before he came into the picture. I know how
hormones and a dry spell can control your thinking capacity but be smart. Your
friends with benefits should be counties, countries and even generations apart
if possible with no chance ever of crossing each other’s paths.
Even charity work is something. Being unemployed is a bad
circumstance but do not allow it to make you an idle person. Just do something
at least and have something else to talk about than the latest television show.
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