4 ways to cure a bad relationship
05 January 2016, 16:02
Nairobi - Things are thick in our relationship. Here are 4 ways to cure it.
‘Don’t go to sleep without solving it’
At times do go to bed without solving anything. At times people need space in order for them to listen to your side of anything. Coming too close in the heat of the moment might just make the other person pull even further back so when they do not want to talk, let them be.
‘Have sex everyday in order to not lose the connection’
We are just tired, need I further elaborate? Let me put it this way, when the attraction keeps coming from one side but the other side is not a full participant, it eventually becomes the norm. How would you like to ruin the one best thing that is a recreational activity for all couples? At times it is best if you just let the other person eventually come to you.
‘Include other people in solving your problems’
This one is usually an African thing. Have the elders come from the village to solve your tiffs even the little ones. I will tell couples who are not yet tied to each other forever this; ‘never marry someone with whom you cannot have a proper disagreement and solution with’. It does not have to be solved the very same day but if you eventually get there it is good. But if you have to keep bringing outside people in order for one person to listen to the other, you have worse problems.
‘Learn to compromise’
There is compromise and compensating. Compensating is when you do things in order for the other person to like or love you more. This one is bad and it will backfire on you eventually. Compromise is when the other person meets you halfway; they lose something as well.
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