4 ways to bounce back from a failed relationship
02 February 2016, 22:43
Nairobi - Maybe you should consider the following.
Stop playing games
with other people or let other people do the same to you
If you want to call, my advice is call. If you want to
follow up on a date; then do so. Keeping quiet has never solved anyone’s
problems and they surely will not do so for yours. If you feel like the other
person is not being upfront with you or acting as you expect; then call them
out. One of you needs to hand the other one their matching papers. At least you
will not have wasted your time.
Put your ego and
In order for a lot of people to do the above then that is
because they actually asked themselves, ‘What is more important; how I look at
the end of the day or the relationship I might end up enjoying with this
At times you try to communicate with the other person and
they keep blowing hot and cold; you can only take so much but at least you
Not everyone is out
to get you
Just because you have had one bad relationship or situation;
does it mean that you have to treat other people badly or mess with someone
else. You cannot judge another person’s
actions solely on a previous experience. Dating is about taking a chance on
someone. It can end up bad but is can also end up very good.
You might just have to sacrifice yourself and your good
intuition in finding the perfect partner.
Always keep in mind;
it was fun while it lasted
Even though it does not work out, ‘It was fun while it
lasted!’ If it was not fun for you, you are dating the wrong people. But in
order for you to avoid being bitter about bad situations and whatnot; try imagining
the fun you had while getting out there at least.
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