4 types of men women avoid
08 December 2015, 19:03
Nairobi - Some men are just not up to standard. Cue some examples.
Well, if we were not in Kenya and men were not allowed to
marry as many wives as they wanted, the clear answer would be just a basic no.
But we are in Kenya and for most women, they like tried and tested experiments
especially men so for some she would be okay to be wife number two, three or
On the other hand if you do not want to be a co-wife; stay
away from the married guy. Don’t believe he is leaving his wife or they are
having problems lines; just stay away. You are even better off with a divorcee’s
baggage than a married man going through a hurdle and thinking of his options.
Men with a child/ children but not married
These ones are always a problem because they will always
make you question the relationship the whole time. And you cannot be the woman
that tells a man to limit his time with his children so that he does not see
the baby mother or take him away from them; it speaks on your character.
If you are not ready to handle such but want something that
is just yours, then stay away from men who already have children because the
mother, unless dead will always be there. If she does not have a life of her
own and her own man, trust me, she will always make herself an option for him
and make sure you know it.
To each his own and I know for a lot of ladies, they are all
talk and when they find that one but he has this problem, they just put up with
it because they do not want to look again. A mummy’s boy type of situation is
not something you are ever going to change; it will always be a triangle. He
will not change in marriage and you are not going to kill his mother. If you know you cannot handle it, stay away.
Can you just imagine dating someone, getting in a relationship with them,
liking them and then when you are in too deep; you realize the mother will
always come first even the smallest decisions.
P.S Mother’s boy is not getting her medicine in the middle
of the night when she has no one else or giving her your date money for her to
get treatment. That is what people do for their mothers. Mother’s boy is,
‘Honey, can we move to this place?’ Then he says, ‘Let me check if my mother
would be comfortable coming to visit in that area.’ Or talking about your
intimate stuff with her.
The on-off in a relationship/ out of relationship guy
You have been watching him from afar and maybe it is with
one woman or many women. You want him and when he is off you just think, I am
the one for him and I am the one that could make him settle. I could be the
fixer, the game changer. You cannot fix anyone or make anyone want better for
themselves unless they want it. Leave him alone to figure himself out on his
own. Find a man who is ready for you not one who is still figuring it out. You
will be another notch on his post.
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