4 traits women look for in husbands
15 February 2016, 15:51
Nairobi - Women are keen on who they get married to. Here are a few traits they are keen on.
Having standards is
not such a bad thing
As long as you are reasonable about what you want and need
there is nothing wrong with speaking your mind when it comes to the person you choose
to settle with. Most of the time, women are put off by the people close to them
because they are apparently being too picky. If you know and understand
yourself do not settle on someone that is clearly not pleasing you.
There is a difference between growing together and working
with someone towards that direction as compared to someone you have to force
that situation with. If they do not want what you want and they are clearly not
working with you; the why are you staying?
If he is not acting
like a husband then please find someone who does
Change can only happen if the man wants it for himself,
never because marriage is going to make it happen. A man will act like a
husband for the woman he would like as a wife and respects as a wife. If he is
not doing so for you, he obviously does not think you deserve it. If as a
boyfriend the man is stressing you then why are you still around; if he is
stressing you now, he will stress you in marriage.
The person you choose
to spend your life with, should appreciate your differences
It is rare to find a couple that likes everything the same.
They like the same hobbies have the same interests and do or go everywhere
together; very rare. The person you spend the rest of your life with should be
able to understand you and what you like. Not pick you apart because of them or
belittle them because they do not make sense to them. If you give them an idea
and they laugh it off or tell you that you will never be able to accomplish it,
it will reach a point they will make you lack confidence and have low
self-esteem. They will eventually make you doubt yourself. Your partner should
be a champion, even if your ideas fail, they are not there to say, ‘I told you
so’ but are able to be encouraging and help you pick up.
Connection is always
and has always been a factor
That is the only thing that will help you keep it together
when everything else is failing. It will reach a point that the climax of your
relationship is reached and the high is over. You will need something that will
help you see the value of being that person. A person to have a casual
conversation with; talk to about most things and someone that will try to
understand where you are coming from. Don’t rush into a relationship because
the sex is good at the moment, or they are doing this for you when nobody else
can. That will eventually be mundane. Trust me!
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