4 traits men love in women
25 January 2016, 18:36
Nairobi - One man can treat two women completely different. Why? In
every man, there are different sides, whichever one you choose to address is
the one that will respond to you. Whichever side she chose to address is the
one that responds to her. That is why one woman will date him and will never
get the ring or title and this one will come, swoop in and even get his soul.
So which side do you choose to address because you are always
complaining about one thing or the other in all your relationships. Yet, when
these people move on, they seem to be in perfect harmony with their new halves.
Always remember that
no matter how many times you confess, ‘I am only doing this with you’ and you
do it, it will always sound like a lie
He will agree with you, but just don’t do it. Don’t send
nudes and funny messages without the proper communication and relationship from
him because you will always just be that- a fling in his phone!
Talking back is never
People in relationships should learn proper communication
skills. Being loud is not being heard because it can also be tuned out. You can
get your points across without shouting and being aggressive. Let someone talk
then you talk. They will eventually shut up if they are not giving you a
chance; just take a notebook and write your points if you feel you are going to
forget them. But if you keep having arguments like a fishwife in the market,
you will be treated like a fishwife. No one wants to deal with that in forever
terms and in a mother of his children.
When someone treats
you nicely, it does not mean they are weak
Someone is treated with respect and lovingly and they assume
they have a doormat. You turn a good man into a bad person because once he sees
your game, he will change eventually. It might not happen fast but when it does
you will hate it and regret it.
Being submissive does
not mean you are weak, lack equality or are a doormat in the relationship
If your definition of equality is being weak then you should
not be in a relationship. You always get what you ask for and how you carry
yourself around the person you want. If you want to be pampered you also need
to know how to pamper-it is a give and take. If you want the queen treatment,
you need to learn the king treatment. No matter how many ways you choose to
look at it or confront it; the woman who knows how to be submissive without
giving up her power in the relationship is the one that will always win.
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