4 things women should never do to their man
21 March 2016, 21:10
Nairobi - Women do some bad things to their men at times. Here are some they should avoid at all costs.
Challenging him in
front of your kids
Family, sort of works like little mini-institutions. You
should look at it like a company- colleagues, easily feed off of what their
fellow colleagues do or say. If a partner, challenges another partner, it is
juicy fodder for the subordinates. The partner that wins is the one that gains
respect while the one that loses is looked down on.
It works the same way in family. Children look up to you and
they feed off of what you and your spouse choose to show them. When children
loose respect for one of their parents, they got it from somewhere and it is
usually from another parent. When you challenge your husband in front of the
kids, how can you then go back to him and ask him to correct them. They will
not pay attention or really care because you have shown them his word is not
worth any grain of salt.
Correcting or talking
down to him in public
There is a time and place for everything and there
definitely will never be a time where it is right for any spouse; husband or
wife, to make the other look foolish by pointing out the other’s mistake.
No matter what they say or do that is wrong or makes you
look bad, you chose them so you have to suffer through it until you get home-if
it is that serious. Some women make the mistake of talking over their men
because maybe they think he is not clever enough to make the right remarks or
he is sounding dumb-yea, you chose them, suffer through it. But pointing it out
in public will also make you look foolish because you chose to be with a
Just don’t correct someone in public especially in front of
people you will keep seeing.
I don’t think you need an explanation for this one. No matter how you choose to look at it or
explain it, you are humiliating your partner especially if it is with someone they
keep interacting with or seeing.
reprimanding your husband in public
In public includes in front of your family and in front of
your mother. You ruin someone’s self-esteem and it will reach a point they will
no longer care even while doing the smallest tasks. Have a care with what you
say and when you say it and whom is around while you say it.
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