4 things to say before 'I love you'
12 April 2016, 21:01
Nairobi - There are plenty of things to say before I love you. Here are 4.
Showing gratitude even for the simplest things is a big deal
no matter how long or short you have been with someone. When someone goes out
of their way to make sure you are fine no matter how small the deal, it
matters. You will realize that the moment they stop doing because they got
tired of waiting for you to say the right words; and if you do not mean then do
not say it.
Do you need anything?
It cannot always be one person doing things for you but you
do not care to do anything for them. Just because someone does not come and
ask, maybe they want you to come forward and ask because it will have more
meaning that way. Less of ‘me’ attitude also means you going out of your way to
be there for someone else without benefiting from it.
I like spending time
You cannot love someone if every time you spend time with them;
you want to be somewhere else. You are always checking the time; you are
thinking of someone else and you are thinking of your work.
If you like spending time with someone, let them know.
People like hearing these things because it gives them more confidence to want
to call you again and set something else up. But if they drop you, you are mum,
you do not want to be the first to make a move or say what you are thinking not
to seem desperate; you will also communicate the wrong thing. They will take
time to even call or even consider anything more with you. Some dates end
because none was ready to step forward to speak their mind.
That was very
thoughtful of you
Don’t take things and people for granted. Others never even
get a mere date, present or a small gift for a birthday. If someone never
forgets and make proper effort to remember things that matter to you;
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