4 things to not do around your man
30 March 2016, 20:19
Nairobi - There are things to never do around your man.
Getting into fights
I had to start with this one because it was the inspiration
behind the article. You know when people tell you, you get treated how you act.
A lot of women forget that even after getting the commitment, you are still on
surveillance. You can never forget that the one thing important to a man out
there is his image and you are sort of a representation of him. So when you are
out there and are doing dumb things, you are not the only one in question but him
You can do what you want, but you better make sure he does
not hear about it if it is something stupid. Better yet, make sure you do not
do it while he is there; getting into fights, with men or women as well. Even
throwing insults or being aggressive; no matter how much you have been wronged,
you need to learn to keep your cool. Be a lady or rather pretend to be one at
least; if not for you, then for him if you hope to keep him around.
Going out on a date
but not being there
Having sex, but not being there. Your mind is elsewhere. The
one that is a date is especially worse when they have made time to be with you,
probably time you kept complaining about but spend the entire time on your
phone. It is disrespectful. If you want someone to pay attention to you, then
you do the same. If you want something to keep happening a certain way, then
learn the art of reciprocation. That is the only way you will get what you want
out of a relationship.
They might be disrespecting you, but how you handle it is
what makes the difference. You will not earn any points for any retaliation,
especially if he is around. You will earn respect and maybe some forbearance if
you can hold yourself back. On the other hand, if you keep picking at it, they
will not even try to help because it seems you have a handle on it.
possessiveness or jealousy tactics
Just don’t. It will look cute in the beginning but if you
get out of hand, you will ruin your chance at a good relationship.
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