4 things to always ask your lover
17 November 2015, 19:11
Nairobi - No one can be blamed for actually forgetting about the other
person they are in a relationship/ marriage with. Life likes to get in the way
and soon enough routine becomes commonplace for a lot of couples. In the end you
lose out on a lot where your partner is concerned because you two haven’t had
an actual conversation for a long time. You have no idea that they are being
celebrated at work because you no longer do ‘these’ things. You have no idea
that their boss is giving them a hard time or the business is not doing as well
as the two of you expected. You do not even know that your child got suspenede
because you just do not know.
Ask them how their day was
Not the false one we all do but our mind is actually elsewhere.
But really ask your partner how their day was they might actually have a funny
story to tell that will lift your spirits. You do not have to do it immediately
but after you settle down and there is nothing to watch on the television, go
sit with them as they prepare your meal in the kitchen and talk or you can also
Ask them if they need help with the kids
Most kids were/ are raised by one parent. We understand that
at times one has a busier schedule than the other. But often times you get home
and use an excuse, they can do the same or worse, stay late at work but they
don’t. They try, so you should too; when you make time give your partner an off
day once in a while for them to relax too.
Ask them how work is for them
Your partner will not tell you that they got fired because
both of you created a false sense of security where you do not talk about such
things. They leave the house as usual; you are thinking they are going to work
but they are just going to sit somewhere on Aga khan Walk stressing about life
and using up savings. Make it a habit to ask about such things.
You need to ask how they are getting along in your
You might be building castles while they are using the
hidden ladder at the back to get out at night. A stitch in time saves nine.
Find out if they are happy or not, what you can change or improve. If they
still want to be with you or no.
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