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4 things men must STOP doing to women

12 January 2016, 18:36 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Men men men... Listen closely.

Don’t waste her time

If you know she is not the women you would like to settle with, let her know and let her go. There is nothing as bad as wasting a woman’s time. She is talking to you telling you how and where you are going to live together. She is telling you how many babies she is going to have with you and how she would like to be your wife. You know her expectations but you do not want her but you are afraid to tell her. Or you are keeping her around ‘just in case’ or like a cushion INCASE you do not find the one you want. Don’t do that. Practice the game of chance on your own time and let another man’s daughter live. Give her the chance to make the choice to stay or leave.

Stop these games you like playing

Valentine’s is around the corner; Christmas and New Year was just the other day and you are still broke. These are the conversations people are having, ‘I saw you talk to that man. What do the two of you have going on? Shut up, don’t talk to me again!’ Then don’t pick her calls until February 18th for proper effect.

Or better yet; the easier route, earlier planning so that it doesn’t arouse suspicion; ‘I have a work trip from the tenth of next month. We are still figuring out the details!’ I admit dating a Kenyan man can be the funniest experience you will ever have if you just allow to see the humor of everything they do. They like games and tricks and you people are experts. But remember, you are the one’s playing the games now; your women will learn and use the games on you eventually. Do we still want to have that conversation in the future? Stop the games and if you cannot work something out, figure something else out. You are not kids.

Don’t lie or omit information about another situation you might have

If you want women to behave, please don’t put them in that situation. Bar fights because your wife saw you with your new one; women causing a circus at weddings because someone just did not say they had a wife or keeping a baby mama and child a secret.

Give the women you come across the opportunity to pick a choice of whether to stay and deal with your drama or leave and find another one for herself. Don’t lie about the village wife, first wife, the main girlfriend. You might be surprised that she might agree to be the second wife. Just allow the choice.

Learn to treat the Kenyan woman like a lady and you will eventually see the change

It amazes me how I hear the Kenyan man complain how the Kenyan women are no longer authentic and vivacious as they used to be but are now fake and trying to assimilate cultures that are not there’s. It is your fault because when the ‘big booty’ and the 8 figure became the norm; you glorified it and celebrated it making the ones who did not have it feel less. You are the ones that brought the change around.

You are the ones who do not want to spend time outside of the house with a woman to get to know her first but want to rush to get the main dish so that you ‘judge’ if she is worth it. Then you complain how Kenyan women no longer act like ladies and there are no more of those around. You made them that way.

You are going to be the ones that will have to undo what you did by treating them as women should be treated. Don’t treat her like a ruffian and then expect her to see the gentleman in you and act like lady. You always get back what you give in life. Take that lady you admire, treat her well and she will be confident in herself and act right.

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