4 things men do that confuse women
03 November 2015, 17:34
Nairobi - Men can be confusing at times. Here are three easy instances.
You just have to tell her you are considering other people
There are no two ways about this one and you cannot say that
she knew you were not that serious about her. You need to tell a woman while
you are dating her that you are dating other people as well. That way you can
use that excuse. Women are emotional, I agree but we are emotional about
investments. I’ve found it easier to let go of people that told me right off
the bat that, ‘they do not want anything’, I do not take that personally. Or,
‘they are seeing other people’, that way, I also make a choice to see other
people as well and not put all my eggs in one basket. That is just how it works
for women. Don’t say,’ …but she knew or she knows me’. Get it out and let her
prepare herself. If she ends up turning out to be the one for you while you are
both dating around, well bad luck to you. Now you get to work for what you
Sex, sex, sex
I have to say that men act more immature about sex than women
do. My line of reasoning comes from assumptions you people make. If she has sex
on the first date, she is not the right role model for your daughter. You
cannot use that line if you were part of it because it seems you are also not a
good role model for your son. If she does not ‘give it up’, she is not worth
your time because you have to taste the goods to see if she is worth all the
effort. If she comes to your house for a ‘date’ then it seems she passes
herself around and is too easy. What? Make up your minds so that we can all
I am sorry that the chastity belt was not brought along with
the 21st century for the women to use. Times have changed and as a
man you need to know what it is you need from a woman. If you do not want sex
until you get to know her more, then keep it casual and do not make passes.
Drop her at the door until next time. Do
not do the opposite and still find something to complain about.
Less or more attention from her
When women like someone we keep in constant contact with them.
It can get to be too much. I once had a man tell me I am giving him too much
attention. I complained at first (in my head) but afterwards I realized at
least he told me. Instead of letting me look like a fool with unanswered texts
or ignored calls. We need more men like that. Just let her know what you are
comfortable with and she will adapt; that is my point. Women are not
It is two heads not one
What I mean is it is the two of you and not her alone. Tell
a woman you are taking her out and let her know you want her to choose the
outing, place and what she wants to do. Tell her early and she will find the
answers for you. Do not tell her you will take her out, get to her doorstep and
it’s like you are at the headlights asking her what she feels like doing. Until
that moment she just knew she was to get ready and join you, not come up with
the whole plan. So do not complain when she gives you a blank look. Saying how
you have to do everything.
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