4 things married men should NOT do
03 February 2016, 18:59
Nairobi - The married Kenyan man is a very dangerous species in my
opinion. The other day I told you how I heard a couple of them talking about
how when another woman is going after him is not stealing because he can now have
as many as he wants. You can do what you want, as long you just don’t like
breathing or living; but to each his own. Even the best of them are always up
to some Tomfoolery; you just have to catch them because they are really good
with trickery and coming up with lines.
Why do you have to
keep picking numbers when you are already taken?
Just as you have the option of taking that card or napkin
with another woman’s number and sliding it in your pocket; you also have the
option of leaving it on the table. Technically,
you are allowing for cheating in the future in your relationship because that
day you have an argument or your wife is giving you silent treatment; you pick
that number and start flirting with, ‘Karanja, the plumber (this is why women
call random numbers on your phone)!’
Why do you have to
Especially with someone you will have to keep
seeing-colleagues, co-workers or employees are people you should not have too
much personal contact if you want to avoid cheating. Flirting with a stranger is sort of different
because you just don’t see them again but co-workers? Not such a smart move and
that is how you get rained on with blows. It happens once innocently, then
again and again until you decide to have an innocent drink, an innocent talk
and eventually an innocent ride to drop someone home.
Give a woman you are
no related to money
I am not talking about charity or a beggar on the street but
that woman you usually have petty talks with while at work. Then one day she
says she has no credit and next time she is behind on her rent; then next time
she has no money for hair. Then she will offer to cook you lunch for your
generosity and what do you know? That is how men end up in tricky situations.
If that money is bothering you so much in your pocket; help it cool its heels
in your wife’s possession at least.
Spend too much time
out of your house rather than with your wife or family
If that was the plan; then congratulations, you are making a
good job out of it. I am not saying you do not deserve some time with your
comrades or you weekends with the boys but do learn the art of balance. Wives
do have a problem with it, when you never even set aside one weekend to spend
and have fun with her. Your wife is not fun? Then why did you marry her. What you
do not do, some other man will help you do, no matter how not-so-good-looking
you think she is. There is a man who will be out there eyeing her and noting
your absence. He will zone in on that and by the time you realize when all your
friends decide they need time with their other halves, yours will not be
available. Congratulations, you played yourself!
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