4 signs your relationship is doomed
15 December 2015, 15:13
Nairobi - There are those relationships which never end well. Are you in one?
You keep breaking up
to make up
Your relationship is always on and off, on and off. You two
can’t just seem to get serious and solve whatever issue that keeps coming up
and if you solve it you find another one to fight about. That is a shaky
foundation you two have and it is never going to be stable because the two of
you are toxic in it. So do not allow yourself to think that commitment such as
marriage will change the situation.
You are always
defensive about it
If you are not comfortable with it, you never will be. If
you have to keep defending it to family, friends, at work and any other people
because it keeps messing you up, then that relationship is not good for you. If
it keeps ruining your work, career and you as well; then maybe you should
re-evaluate whether you want it to ruin the rest of your life because it
There is that one
issue that is always causing a fight
Forgiving and forgetting is a lot harder to do than most
people think especially when it is that one thing that you expected your
partner never to do. If all your fights end with, ‘...you remember that one
time….’ Then a big blow up happens and everything crashes; every single time.
Maybe the option you two should consider is ending it because it seems you have
never gotten over it.
You have become a
worse person going in than when you were without it
Your partner drinks, you have also now become an alcoholic.
They do not take their work seriously; you have also slacked because you are
now ‘carefree’ and stress free. They do not save because they like living well;
you start doing the same. If it does not make you better but worse; leave it
because there is no uphill climb when you have a crutch that supports you
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